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yeah, but Earthshine won't leave a rash!
-ol' 2long That's TWO (2). You're on a roll today 2Long.
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Over and over again he kept making his wishes known how he wanted other people to use me and that I am supposed to submit to him according to God.
This logic is what makes it impossible to get the kind of help that you really need here.
It is abusive, manipulative, degrading and isn't that far from pimping. If money, favors, or anything of value trades hands, he can add that to his list of offenses against you.
He does NOT value you in any way other than sexual.
Look for some answers as to why you would entertain being used like this.
JMHO
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Well, my husband came in from work last night and did not look at me, much less speak to me. This morning I didn't speak to him. Normally when he goes off on his tangents and is angry with me, I usually try to make the peace first but I had told him the other night that I was through doing that and I am. Hopefully this time he will realize how serious this is.
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The postings on the swinging lifestyle have me intrigued.
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What's so intriguing about it? It's pretty much a surefire death pact for a marriage.
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amoris...
do you believe that your husband will ever believe that fidelity is enough.....
do you believe he will
also
what are his complaints about your and his sexual relationship...
is it that no matter what you do it's not enough...
what exactly are his expectations..
AND
are they realistic...
blessings to you
arkie
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