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Yes, tirelessly. I actually found a site that listed like 50 different job sites you could look up. The problem we would have right off the bat would be selling the house. Moving really is not the issue at all. We have wanted to move for a while and when/if the housing market picks back up, we will likely take advantage of it. We both have our families close by too and with the kids, it's nice to have that. However, that being said, I will certainly send for info from all those areas you suggested as well as look for jobs in those specific locations. Thank you again for your input! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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Have you considered your husband talking to his supervisor and trying to get a transfer? Maybe she could get a transfer? Maybe they could lay her off?

Maybe if you talk to her husband, he'll help her leave her job. Then you could stay.

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I'm giving hubby a couple of points for being interested in MB. That is a good sign.

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He has been 100% interested since day 1. He has never defended what he has done nor gotten mad at me regarding the poor decisions he has made. I just posted somewhere else to Lake that when he did the NC email, it was something he said he would do but didn't feel comfortable doing it when I asked him to because at that time, there literally had been NC for a few months. I wasn't happy about this but had to respect his decision (reminding him that he was losing love deposits rapidly for not doing it then). When she called him 2x Wednesday morning, he felt at that point that he had to do it and he panicked and instead of running it past me first, he just sent it to her and CC'd me. He knows without a doubt that looking back, the congrats on the award was completely inappropriate.

Nevertheless, he is always willing to listen to the posts that I send and receive.


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FWH 37
DS 11
DS 6
Married 7/97,
Dday (EA) 1/07


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