Hello friends,
Not sure if anybody will remember me. I was around this site a few weeks ago very distraught and confused. Things are different now. My H and I have decided to separate for some time. We are living apart although still maintaining contact and some sort of a relationship.
After a short trip overseas for me, I came back to find a very different attitude from him on the issue of his A. He has now changed from being sorry and apologetic to just expecting me to ¨get over things.¨
She continued to send him text msgs to his mobile phone even weeks after things were supposed to be over. He says that there is nothing going on and even contacted OWH to tell him about the attempted contacts. However, I couldn't continue to be there in the middle of all of this. The nightmare was not quite over for me. I feel OW is just just laying low and waiting for the storm to blow over hoping that they can still be in each other's lives. It was too hard for me.
I was still going through his phone records, notes, and other personal affairs and it was no way to live.
I am doing better, the anxiety attacks have slowed down although I am left with a great sense of sadness, but at least it is somewhat manageable.
Not sure what sort of advice, if any, anyone can offer at this point, but I am still open to any thoughts from my forum friends.
Hope all is well with all of you.
Thanks again for all your support, I would have never made it through the last 2 months without you.
India
