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Mrs. Wondering gave a good argument as to why I should change my name, so I did. My new nick is:

Aphaeresis.

It's in the dictionary. It means omitting the beginning of a word as in 'round for around or 'til for until.

There. Nice boring meaning no one can possibly take wrong <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Good for you Aph.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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I thought it meant filtering blood to remove a specific element?

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Aphaeresis.

It's in the dictionary. It means omitting the beginning of a word as in 'round for around or 'til for until

Maybe it could mean you could omit your first 'seemingly still foggy' posts.

Maybe it will help you start (or continue) to open up to owning your stuff, not blaming, being a victim, rationalizing....justifying....etc.

Good name, Aph, and a good effort to show you're willing to change. Finding a way to afford calls to SH will be the best investment you could make in the rest of your life. How do you put a price on that?

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Thanks everyone.

TogetherAlone, I have no idea what word that would be. I think if you google "reverse dictionary" you might be able to find a site that could tell you, though.

Ace, I'll find a way somehow to make at least one call before D-day.

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Seems it can mean either:

All you need to know about blood: aphaeresis

The medical definition is often spelled 'apharesis'.

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Stretch a bit with me....

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• Aphaeresis is a method of collecting blood that separates the different components of the blood at the outset.


Blood is life-giving, oxygenating the body. It has many components.

A marriage (body) needs oxygenating as well by many components of love at the outset.

Aph is collecting 'components of love' (honesty, selflessness, commitment, etc.) that are needed to oxygenate her relationship.

She is also deleting her seemingly dubious beginning here on MB, thus enabling her to collect more components of love.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

I said it was a stretch. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

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LOL! Or maybe I'm just a vampire <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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NOT! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />


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