Hey there,
I saw your response to my questions. Since this is where you hang out, I came over to say hello. I saw SNR's post when I came. So sad. Thanks for being there for her.

I am so glad he came to you and confessed and recovery is an actuality.

How are the kids?

What about the MIL? Is she still making life difficult for you or does your h have NC with her too?

take care - so good to hear from you

Hi move <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I do try to keep up with this board, I don't do too much posting here on MB anymore. I try to pop in and catch newbies as our situations are unique from the rest of the MB popluation.

Kids are good. DS just turned 9 yesterday. He is getting big and has managed to stay healthy for quite a while now. DD is 14 1/2! She is doing well, though she still struggles with school she tries very hard. She starts high school in the fall. My older DS went to France for two months with his college. It was a great experience for him and he seemed to mature while he was gone. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

MIL, is still a bit of a problem because I cannot trust her. I did see her for the first time in 3 years when her step father was ill. It was awkward but I wanted to be sure she felt my presence and knew I was going to continue to be her son's wife.

Other than that, FWH is making strides in understanding the why's of a lot of this. 3 years is a long time so he still has some very foggy thoughts at times but all in all I am impressed with how much he has thought about what is the right to do in life and where God wants him to be.

Thanks for thinking of me.

Hi Faithful.

Was reading your post and am relieved to hear that you are doing much better. Hope the R between you and your H continues to improve in the coming months. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />