Hi,

Please help my feeling here. I have been marriried for 7 years, we have i doughter 6 years old. in my last jobs i working outside town far away from my family. in our house also live mother of my wife. since beginning i did not agree she live with us, but i just let my mother of my wife live in our hous. suddenly around 3 months ago i sent sms to my wife that i do let her mother live in our house again & i notice 1 week to live our house. a month after i sent the sms, i call her just to make conversation, after talking around, suddenly she told me that she already make a sin to having affair with another man, i really socked at that time. so i came back home & talk to her, she said she really sorry & apologized. I told her i forgive her, but until now i just feel she belong to some one else, i do not know true or not ?, but just keep telling my self she is still 100% belong to my life.

i do not know what should i do, divorce her ?, live with her with this feeling ?, or just let it be it is only sex, the important thing is my wife heart still belong to me

by the way, in my life i have sex fantasy, to watch my wife having sex with another men, or to play together with them. what is going on with my mind ?

Please advice ...

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