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NO like DAVID VITTERS is

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NO like DAVID VITTERS is

But I have not defended David Vitters. Only his wife, the one you started this thread to attack.

BL, I am getting the sense here that you don't believe that standards apply to you and yours, just OTHERS. For example, you condemn this ritter woman for having "no compassion" while you show her none. You criticize her H for not stepping down but hold clinton to a different standard. Do your standards not apply to you?

hy·poc·ri·sy
–noun, plural -sies. 1. a pretense of having a virtuous character, moral or religious beliefs or principles, etc., that one does not really possess.


What was that you were saying about "hypocrisy?"


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MEL WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO PICK A FIGHT WITH ME I FEEL FOR MRS VITTERS I FEEL FOR THEIR CHILDREN. I DO NOT GIVE A RATS BEHIND FOR MR VITTERS I GUESS YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT OF MR DAVID VITTERS HYPOCRISY IT MUST BE BECAUSE HE HAS AN (R) IN FRONT OF HIS NAME

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hy·poc·ri·sy
–noun, plural -sies. 1. a pretense of having a virtuous character, moral or religious beliefs or principles, etc., that one does not really possess.

I did not run for office on the pretense of moral superiority. I did not put myself on a pedistal of moral doctorine all the while cheating on my spouse.

I don't think it is right what happened to Mrs Vitters, I hope she now understands what it is like and will refrain from being so judgemental in the future.

What I would love to see but never will, is them both apologize to the Clintons and the Livingstons families.

In closing, hopefully Mel will oneday understand why this hypocrisy is wrong.

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Yes, I see lots of "feeling" in your posts, Beenlurkin. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />


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back at ya

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hy·poc·ri·sy
–noun, plural -sies. 1. a pretense of having a virtuous character, moral or religious beliefs or principles, etc., that one does not really possess.

I did not run for office on the pretense of moral superiority. I did not put myself on a pedistal of moral doctorine all the while cheating on my spouse.

I don't think it is right what happened to Mrs Vitters, I hope she now understands what it is like and will refrain from being so judgemental in the future.

What I would love to see but never will, is them both apologize to the Clintons and the Livingstons families.

In closing, hopefully Mel will oneday understand why this hypocrisy is wrong.

And hopefully you will see that when you condemn someone for not being "compassionate" when you are being MEAN YOURSELF that that is the very definition of HYPOCRISY.

Hypocrisy is wrong for ALL, Beenlurkin, not just those you don't like. It is even wrong when you do it. Standards are not just for OTHERS.

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I hope she now understands what it is like and will refrain from being so judgemental in the future.

OH DEAR. Is this your judgement? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />


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Let me get this straight. It is OK for you to judge the Vitters, but not ok for them to judge bill clinton? Just how exactly does that work? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />


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yes it is,

I think you condemmed me right from the beginning. I NEVER EVER FELT YOUR COMPASSION.

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yes it is,

I think you condemmed me right from the beginning. I NEVER EVER FELT YOUR COMPASSION.

What "compassion?" How can you "feel" something that doesn't exist? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />


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It works because

I did not run for office on the pretense of moral superiority. I did not put myself on a pedistal of moral doctorine all the while cheating on my spouse.

I don't think it is right what happened to Mrs Vitters, I hope she now understands what it is like and will refrain from being so judgemental in the future.

What I would love to see but never will, is them both apologize to the Clintons and the Livingstons families.

In closing, hopefully Mel will oneday understand why this hypocrisy is wrong.


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Oh that's right, you only have compassion for hypocites like the Vitters becausee they have an (R) in front of thier name.

I am done have a good night!!

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I think you owe an apology to the Vitters for being so judgemental and hypocritical, don't you? Do you not think hypocrisy is wrong for everyone?

You might feel better if you would just apologize. Practice a little forgiveness yourself?


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sure, right after you apologize for attacking me

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waiting...

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yup, that's what I thought

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BL,

I had just seen something on tv about this as I was signing on. Believe me, I said the same things she did about my husband having an affair. Did I follow through? No. I forgave him and we are happily in recovery.

Reading your posts made me sick at my stomach. You basically stated since they were vocal against Clinton, she deserved what she got by her husband having an affair.

That is one of the most disgusting things I have ever read on this site.

NO ONE deserves to be cheated on.

I guess because I was vocal about Clinton, that is why my husband cheated and I deserved. DISGUSTING!

Honestly, I am shaking from reading what you wrote.

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no apoligies here,
ain't gonna happen

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no apoligies here,
ain't gonna happen

I betcha you would feel better if you did, BL. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


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Even in these last few posts when you are trying to remake what ever point it is you are trying to make, you are still saying she deserved it.

So, were you cheated on? Or is this how you justify your own actions?

I am so glad you feel so disgusted by Mrs. Vitter - belive me you can not be any more disguted by her than I am of you right now.

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