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when to show wayward SAA ?
#1916073 07/27/07 04:51 PM
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ok been in plan a for approx 45 days now ,ww has split from om 2 times plan a has really worked .

this the third time seems a lot more serious -all his stuffs gone etc, but im not getting the feeling its over .ww really cannot understand the feelings shes getting -no real love for me etc ,i know she wants us but i do feel this will be another false start .

now do i introduce ww to SAA book to help her ?

i realise this will show her plan a etc etc just wanted to know how other waywards reacted or felt when they were shown .i also realise that i will prob be in plan a again very soon ...(ww still lives on her own although wants to rent a place with me ) our house is sold so im looking .
Re: when to show wayward SAA ?
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The advice I was given was to leave the book 'lying about' so WW could discover it & read under no pressure - force feeding SAA is counter-productive. That said I've no idea what the accepted wisdom is for introducing a WS to MB material.

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Englander,

i've been working with Jennifer, and my WH is telling me that he wants a R with me, so she suggested giving it to him now. We had a 5 month false recovery/Plan A thing going on. I suggested that he read it, but he has not responded yet. I wasn't sure I wanted him to know about Plan B (just in case I need to use it, which it looks like I will).

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