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I hope all goes well! You and your kids are in my thoughts! The light at the end of the tunnel is so close!

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I'll be praying for you this morning Strivin'.

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Waiting to hear....

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This is not the end but a beggining.

When this is finished please remember it was necessary to be adversarial through this process but IMVHO for the kids it becomes important for you to work together in the future.

I Know you can and I hope STBX can too. It is very important.

Hope all went well and I hope you are holding up OK.


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Thinking of you, Rin.
Hope it's going well.

You've been so strong for so long!

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Sending good thoughts your way, Rin!

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Praying all goes well.


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Praying for ya, kiddo!

Today you are going to lose some things that were dear to you--that is the ugly nature of divorce. But today I pray that God will be at your side, supporting you, encouraging you, and granting the judge wisdom to see through PWC's games and to grant you what you and the boys need to move into a healthier, happier life.

Love you!!


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I was thinking of and praying for you too Rin!


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I just got a message from Rin, she wanted me to share some details.

She said things are looking good. Some agreements were made on CS, use of the house, and POWS has to sell the Harley.

More details as I get them or when she is able to post.


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Whoo Hoo!!

Keep the info coming!!!

Keep those thoughts and prayers rolling everyone!!


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and POWS has to sell the Harley.

BWAAHHAAAHAAHAA!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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to see through PWC's games

Sheesh. Just like a real mom--can't keep track of her kids' names.

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OOOO not the Harley! That should get him where it hurts!!!!!
Good job Rin!

Prayers for you and your kids,

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and POWS has to sell the Harley.

BWAAHHAAAHAAHAA!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Gee, is that the same Harley he claimed was already sold last year? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Sheesh. Just like a real mom--can't keep track of her kids' names.


OMG!!! I think Rin's got enough to deal with without having to take care of my husband's stuff too!!! LMAO!! Senility is setting in...


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Got this message from Rin:

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What a wonderful thing to read!


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Thank God! I am so proud of you for sticking this out. Give us and update soon!


Me, BW 33 WH 38 DD3 Married 5/3/02, together since 1998 D-Day 11/6/06, 12/4/06 WH attempted suicide 2/5/07 Plan B 4/16/07, Plan D 4/30/07 Order of protection filed 5/3/07 (irony not lost on me) D final 10/7/07??? My Story Ongoing Saga
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HI Everyone! I just got home...We're moving home not this Sunday but next...

The only thing I lose was my laptop...

CS, over 1K a month...and arrears was settled at almost 2K...

POWS has a set of bills that he has to pay and so do I...

No spousal support...

MIL was the one who stepped in and settled POWS down...told him what to do b/c she's holding the pursue strings!!! CS came from her last month...this month will be coming from her and so will the settlement on arrears...

CAn WE SAY ENABLING????

I am SOOO tired...we were in court, mediating from 8:30 to about 3:20...it's been a really long day...

POWS gets the kids the 1st, 3rd, and 4th weekend of the month, and summer goes to 7 and 7...with the week before school with me...

Oh, on the laptop, my A asked about another computer we have, and it's running an old windows...well, my A said that he didn't know what that meant, well, POWS's A said "that means you can't pull up PORN!"

POWS wanted his gun back and I wouldn't give it, sayig I needed it for protection! HN1 claimed that I pulled the gun on her! So, he's not getting that back, and everything in the house stays!

Oh, did I tell you that I told my Attorney this morning that I felt like I was being [email]d1ck@d[/email] around...that was interesting!! BEfore we headed over to court...he was not happy about that and we had to work out some issues about him representing me! LMAO

So, I'll be shopping for a new laptop soon! LMAO

OMG, THank YOU ALL, I was SOOOO surprised to get back and see ALL of the SUPPORT...so many posts! My heart Leaped!!! Words can't express how I feel about you guys, the prayers, etc...

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