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I'm hardly ever here anymore, and due to get married in three days, so probably won't be on much after that either, but I have been reading the last few hours and I wanted to say that you guys are writing some very, very good posts.

So insightful and helpful.

We have so many amazing people on here posting and taking up the slack for those who have been moving on. And not just the ladies either.

Wanted to make sure you guys knew that people are reading your posts and I am very sure you are contributing greatly to their recoveries, as some of the people before you had to mine.

Thanks for being the men that you are. You are teaching your sons and daughters well, I am sure.

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congratulations on your upcoming marriage Weaver!

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Weaver,

I am honored thank you for the mention.

Congratulations!!!!!!! Your happiness is well diserved.


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Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby


When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
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Weaver,

Just trying to pay it forward...

Now don't forget to actually apply MB ideas to the new marriage. You're welcome to come visit any time, but we don't need any repeat customers around here.

Best wishes for the future!

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Appreciate the comments Weaver. Congratulations on the upcoming wedding!!!

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weaver, congratulations, my dear!! GB is a lucky man to get you. I only hope ya did a little something to that flatheaded yankee hair for your wedding! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Love ya weaver!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Weaver, have the happiest of days.
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congrats!!!!!!!!!!!

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Thanks and Congratulations.


Me 43 BH
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Married 20 years, No Kids, 2 Difficult Cats
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weaver:

Having known you for most of the few years you've been here,

Knowing what you've been through, via your accounts of events posted here,

Knowing how you've gracefully dealt with the bad hands you'd been dealt in the past,

Your generous empathy for others who have come here, suffering from the fallout from infidelity,

Your wisdom, earned not just from the school of hard knocks, but from deep soul searching, spiri2ality-searching,

My heart soars with joy this day, for you and GB and your embarking on this new life 2gether.

How truly wonderful!

All my best 2 Mr and Mrs Weaver!

-ol' 2long

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I would not have made it without the girls and guys on this board. I was touched the day I left for my wedding reading the posts of the caring men on here, and was reminded of those who took my hand, and gave me hope when I was down.

The biggest thing from the friends I have made here, I think, besides the reminder of how beautiful people really are, was that I learned how to dream again.

If I were to give back anything I have rec'd from the wonderful people I have met here, and in this world, it would be the memory of what it means to dream.

Don't ever forget how to dream, because your days and your future will be shaped by those dreams.

We had a wonderful wedding. Thank you everyone!

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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Another Mb success story <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

All blessings to you and your new H , dear Weaver !


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Thanks old time rock `n` roller, and musician extraordinaire. (having never heard you play, just guessing there. LOL)

Do you remember when I had a sig line from Zepplin's "Going to California" that read ~~

"standing on a hill in a mountain of dreams, telling myself it's not as hard, hard, hard as it seems"

A distant memory now. Those darks nights didn't last forever, did they Bob?


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