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#1941482 09/17/07 11:42 AM
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Almost exactly a year to the month from when we got custody of the children, we will be back in court with VD.

The AG is bringing her in on criminal charges for criminal non-support.

We got the paperwork Saturday, but I knew about it Friday. Called Faithy and told her.

I've already put in for the day off.

- Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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Dealan-de #1941483 09/17/07 11:46 AM
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Good Luck and Good thoughts!

Prayers,
Fled


Me BS
D Day 4-2-2005
OC born 12-2004
DS 21, DS 12
Married 1993

May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.

Recovering....it's a long road, even with a dedicated FWH
FledTheState #1941484 09/18/07 08:51 AM
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I have to smile, fondly remembering how jubilant I was when you two got custody.

How do you feel about her being charged with non-support? I can see being offended by her negligence of one of the few responsibilities she has, but I also suspect you never expected her to make good on it.


Me - BS DDay 1 (Multiple affairs while overseas) - Feb 2003 DDay 2 (AdultFriendFinder Profile) - April 2007 Seeing a counselor. I think we have him stumped.
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The crap never ends, does it Kimmy. Good luck to you.


"Be still, and know that I am God" Psalm 46:10

Faith isn't believing God can, it's knowing that He will.

BS(me)-27
STBXFWH-27
Married-October 2000
DDay-September 2005
Divorced-October 2006
Recommitted - June 2007
Remarried-August 2007
Kicked him out - April 11, 2008 (all boundaries crossed)
Moved back with my parents - April 27, 2008 (threatening to kill me and tried to kidnap my oldest daughter)
Restraining Order - April 28, 2008
DD-(6,3,2)
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Truthfully, Dobs, it's just another step on the path.

And GC, never ever.

It's something one has to take into consideration when deciding to stay.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

Recovered!
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My prayers for a court day in your favor!

It never ends but the load seems to lighten as time goes by...


dday aug 05
ds was 4 and dd was 3 months old when the A happened
he went home sept 05; stayed for 3 weeks and left us again for ow after 3 weeks
he left preggy ow end of oct 05 and stayed with us since then

we are no contact and recovering
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Looking for an update, Kimmy. What happened with court?


"Be still, and know that I am God" Psalm 46:10

Faith isn't believing God can, it's knowing that He will.

BS(me)-27
STBXFWH-27
Married-October 2000
DDay-September 2005
Divorced-October 2006
Recommitted - June 2007
Remarried-August 2007
Kicked him out - April 11, 2008 (all boundaries crossed)
Moved back with my parents - April 27, 2008 (threatening to kill me and tried to kidnap my oldest daughter)
Restraining Order - April 28, 2008
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Hiya Kimmy!

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Hiya GC!


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

Recovered!

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