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When I first discovered my wifes affair she started to show me so much attention it was almost as if she was making up for lost time.
Now 9 weeks later its back to how it was before all this ie: its me who says 'i love you' first, me who sends the texts, leaves the little notes, reaches out for a cuddle, tries to initiate sex etc etc.
Was her initial show of affection just that - a show?
Does it take time for the genuine feelings to come back?
You would think it would be her making all the effort but its me.
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Joined: Oct 2005
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well it depends - there can be some hysterical bonding just after d-day.
It could also be a sign of contact. I presume you are still snooping....
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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