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Maybe you can talk to him about it. Lots of directors break genre and do really well at it.

Whenever Mr. Gray comes out of the fog, etc. (I'm talking best case scenario here) we should do an infidelity documentary instead of that CB/Ham documentary we were going to do.

That would be much better. Hey, why not a collaboration? The more the merrier and everyone here that's comfortable with it could share their experiences. Maybe we could even get an interview with Doc Harley if he was open to this. We might have to ask permission anyway.

Of course, I don't know how much should be released about this place. We'd probably have to do it and not even mention MB. I dunno!

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What would be far more entertaining is WS's and OP's justifying their behavior on videotape.

We'd call it FOG'ovision.


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Totally on board with the Hollywood version of adultrey. So YUCKY!! I boycott a whole lot of movies and TV shows since my WH's A (for the record, I now hate Grey's Anatomy!!) LOL..

But if memory serves me correctly, in the English Patient the adulterous wife ends up dying and the OM is horribly disfigured for the rest of his life.

Hmmm...maybe the Hollywood version ain't so bad after all? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

You go C22-you're my hero!! I LOVE your thread.

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This recent bit of conversation here makes me think of Shaden's talking about inventing an iFog here once...We could do FogCasts with that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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I never liked Tom Cruise and I disliked him even more after what he did to Nicole.

Yeah, Brad Armpit and Angelina Holey, too.

Those are my top 2! I never got the Tom Cruise thing and he is even less appealing to me now. Angelina.... well she is atleast a 2-for in my book. She married Billy bob and his LIVE IN GF was shocked when she saw it in the paper! Ofcourse this is hollywood so they are excluded from following moral behavior <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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Agreed! So, so gross!

And Julia Roberts is no better. Oh yeah, Britney Spears. But then she's got the morals of a 10-cent ho. Which equals none!

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Okay, just got done emailing my attorney.

I just lobbed a bomb into the other camp. But it wasn't a dirty bomb and Mel helped me construct it.

Should be going off in a day or two.

So I warned my attorney that he might be getting another letter. There's no way Mr. Gray can twist this to use it against me, though, this is info that he NEEDS to stay out of trouble in the other court.

My attorney will receive copies of everything and everything is above board.

Mr. Gray is going to be SOOOOOOOOO p.o.'ed!!!

I had to send it to Slag-Ugly's address and this is not something he has been sharing with her because she is so averse to it. The ugly side of Mr. Gray. Oh wait! ALL sides of Mr. Gray are ugly!!!!!

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Thank you, smartiepants2!!!!

I've had some bad spots but the great people here plus others in my support group have pulled me through!!

I'm still hangin' in there!

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I just lobbed a bomb into the other camp. But it wasn't a dirty bomb and Mel helped me construct it.

now, now, you was jes bein helpful! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Yer right! Jes bein' hepful...no ulterior motives at all!!!

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man - i've totally been thinking about this today too. the week after D-day i took my kids for a visit - my friends and i tried to rent TWO different movies that week, both of which we had to stop part way into because they involved affairs!! then today on my Netflix 'new release' email I saw The Waitress. I saw that when it was in the theatre (and H was having A but i didn't know yet..) and the A in the movie (a big part of it) made me sad and uncomfortable - but i was able to get over it to enjoy the really good parts of the movie.. when i saw the ad today, my stomach totally sank!! at this point i feel like it would be better to watch a nude sex scene than an affair scene (not that one would have to choose either, thankfully!). um.. sorry i'm rambling a bit here. was just so excited to see someone else thinking the same thoughts today!


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I am with you on that! And I'm not a big nude sex scene fan! But I'll take that over an A in a movie!

I rented Mr. Brooks this weekend from DTV and watched it. There were a couple of sex scenes but nothing real heavy. H and I were going to see this but for some reason he and OW would make fun of me when I wanted to go see a movie with him.

The last one we saw was 3:10 to Yuma. It was SO great! And I don't like Russell Crowe. I wanted to see it because I knew Christian Bale was in it and he's ALWAYS good. Peter Fonda was in it, too.

H actually asked me to go so that was our last date. He wouldn't go anywhere else, not even for a simple lunch.

Anyway, enough of that.

If you haven't seen 3:10 to Yuma, it's great. And no sex scenes. Just some implied intercourse. No butts or boobs.

It's great for a remake.

They have been having stuff on DTV like, "I Think I Love My Wife" and oh, what was that one? Some affair movie. I'm like GEESH!!

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There is no way I'm answering the phone if Mr. Gray calls after the package has been delivered.

He can listen to Dino Martino in my VM. And then rant and rave.

But he's not supposed to verbally abuse me so if he does I'm calling "da Man" straightaway.

He'll probably just call his lawyer and yell about it to him, though.

But dey got nuttin' on me!!

BING!!!! Reality!!!!!

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Insomnia...soon I will be seeing the little bald doctors...

Woke up from a dream I don't remember. A little after 3am. With heartburn also.

Still can't get back to sleep!

Brain won't shut up for me. Thinking about Mr. Gray. Thinking about things I shouldn't be thinking about. Thinking about how different I feel about Mr. Gray now. I am almost ready for B. I welcome B.

By the time I go into B, my heart and mind will be very much in sync.

I talked to my DD today (Tuesday.) Okay, yesterday! She asked me how I met Jonesy. I wrote her a really long email telling her the story. She never knew it due to the estrangement from her father.

I had a text war with my sister later in the evening. It was fun. I think we had three different conversations going for a while there.

I guess I'll try to get some more sleep in a few minutes. Hopefully I will sleep this time!

I guess when I see Mr. Gray all of the progress I've made severing myself from his wrath will be down the toilet, huh? I'll just be a quivering mass of flesh. No. I'm NOT going to let him intimidate me.

Yeah, brave words. We'll see how it is when it happens, I guess.

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Ok, share please. What was the bomb that you lobbed?


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Top o' the mornin' to ya' princess meggy!

Remember that affidavit that Mr. Gray has fogotten about?

Sent it to Slag with a nice letter detailing arrests, court dates and "please make sure he gets this..."

Oh yeah, and his arrest video.

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Wow! That should knock the rose-tinted glasses right off. Good job! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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Thanks princess meggy!

And thanks to Mel, too!

Yep, gonna be all about BING!!! Reality!!

Meanwhile, my bag is packed to leave town.

Nah, not really. I'm not scared of Mr. Gray.

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[Bellevue spinning around on the floor propelled by her feet, cackling insanely]

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LOL Bellevue!


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