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mopey #1960956 12/14/07 09:20 PM
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Charlotte

The Killer B's are here for you. Welcome to Club Dark!!

BZZZZZZ.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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Hey Charlotte!

You'll do fine tomorrow... just relax. This is all part of the process... hold your head up high and KNOW that you're doing a great job. Tomorrow isn't a "make it or break it" event... You're in this for the long-haul and it's still early...

Use this opportunity as a last "Plan-A" event... then go very dark.

I'll be in and out on the night-shift, so if you can't sleep, I'll be here!

Semper Fi,

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Me, BS

Her, Forgiven

Married Dec 86

Multiple A's that ended '90

Rebuilding In Faith since then...

Currently deployed to Iraq, but TEXAS is Home!
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Charlotte, I will be around tomorrow if you want to call and talk before he comes. You will do great!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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Hi Melody!!!

Thanks!!!!

You KNOW I'll be buggin' ya'!

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Thanks RIF!!!

I'll do my best!!!

And yes, I probably won't sleep much tonight, if at all!!!

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LOL smartie!!!

Thank you!!

I'll be thinking about all of ya'll when I'm hoppin' around like a Mexican jumping bean before he gets here!

Then I'll be a B...Break out the vintage SNL!!!

"I'm a Kang Bee...buzzin' 'round yo' hive...

I'm a Kang Bee, Baby, buzzin' 'round yo' hive....

And we can make honey, Baby, if you let me come inside!

Buzz, buzz

Buzz, buzz

Buzz, buzz

Buzz, buzz

I'm a Kang Bee, Baby, want ya' to be my queen...

I'm a Kang Bee, Baby, want ya' to be my queen....

And we can make honey, Baby, like the world has never seen!"

(cue Belushi acrobatic clip!)

Best part is the end of course.

"When yo' man is....
When yo' ma'yan is....
Whenyo'manis....
blahblahblahflouragagblourababa..."

Yeah, I know, it's a bad one for MB, but it's so funny I just don't associate it with bad things!!!

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Thanks mopey!!

Thanks for having faith in me. You and others here are really keeping me going.

I'll keep the image of those bleachers in my head!!

What will the pennants say? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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(((Charlotte)))


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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Hey Charlotte!

My Texas Watch says that it's 2330! Just checking in with you to see if you're still awake...

Semper Fi,

RIF

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Thanks Big K!!

I needed that!!!!

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Hi RIF!!

You bet! I'm still up cleaning and polishing and spacklin' and sparklin'!!

Not a bit tired yet, though my back does have a kink in it.

(Stupid radios! LOL)

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What will the pennants say?


Well, the pennants will just say "Marriage Builders". But, me and Rif, 411, Melody, Ace and all the others will be holding a HUGE banner that says "GIRLS RULE AND BOYS DROOL!!!!". <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Not very creative I know, but it's all I gots right now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Seriously though, I DO hope you visualize us doing that cuz if we were all there in your home with you tomorrow, that's what we'd be doing. And boy we'd be obnoxious. We'd be ready for a smack down if Mr. Gray got out of line, fo sho. We'd be quiet while we watched the game and just after you do something goddessy, we'd start hooting and hollering. Blow horn and all. Of course, Mel would probably be picking her nose at the same time, but oh well, it's my fantasy. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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Hey Charlotte! Have fun cleaning!

Mrs. RIF is cleaning like a mad woman and baking all sorts of goodies for me... I told her that I don't care what the house looks like... I'll just be glad to see her and the girls! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Mrs. RIF is cleaning like a mad woman and baking all sorts of goodies for me... I told her that I don't care what the house looks like... I'll just be glad to see her and the girls!


Oh, what a happy thought. I'm so happy for you Rif.


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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"GIRLS RULE AND BOYS DROOL!!!!".


***Edited to say... ***

GIRLS RULE AND BOYS DROOL (EXCEPT FOR RIF <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> )

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"GIRLS RULE AND BOYS DROOL!!!!".



***Edited to say... ***

Except for Rif. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />



That's right Riffy! Oh, and BK too. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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Yeah, don't forget BigK... and isn't 411 a guy too??? if so, we can't lump him in with the droolers... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Oooooh, you're right. O.k., we'll exclude all of our male MB friends. But Mr. Gray (not Jonsey) DEFINITELY drools! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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Well, the pennants will just say "Marriage Builders". But, me and Rif, 411, Melody, Ace and all the others will be holding a HUGE banner that says "GIRLS RULE AND BOYS DROOL!!!!".

Not very creative I know, but it's all I gots right now.

Seriously though, I DO hope you visualize us doing that cuz if we were all there in your home with you tomorrow, that's what we'd be doing. And boy we'd be obnoxious. We'd be ready for a smack down if Mr. Gray got out of line, fo sho. We'd be quiet while we watched the game and just after you do something goddessy, we'd start hooting and hollering. Blow horn and all. Of course, Mel would probably be picking her nose at the same time, but oh well, it's my fantasy


I like it!!

I WILL visualize it!! You can count on it!! Boy, I'd love to see that!! That would be fun!!

Except for Mel picking her nose!!

Unless she wiped her fingers on Mr. Gray's shirt afterwards!

So cool ya'll are up!! I really needed a pick-me-up. I was feeling a little down.

Star Trek V was on so I had that on while I was zipping back and forth. Then the melancholy music score started to get to me a little bit.

Party on the thread!! OVER HERE!! Party on the thread!!!

I'm not sleepy at ALL. But it's just as well. Still a TON to do!!!

DIL wants to be here with DGS tomorrow. I think it's a good idea, really. DS25 is helping, much to his chagrin, so they may as well both be here. They may not see Mr. Gray for Christmas otherwise.

And he can have some exposure to his grandson...who has been ignored by him up to this point, really. He has yet to hold him.

It's sad.

I was looking at some pictures of the kids earlier. DGS looks like ALL THREE of them when they were his age.

So CUTE!!!

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I'm having LOADS of fun!! Believe it!!

Mr. Gray is going to crap bricks and basset hounds when he sees the house!!

I'm so glad you are going to get to spend time with your family!! I hope you guys have great time...I KNOW ya'll will!

If you pass through here...I'll be the one on the bay mare riding alongside I-10 on Christmas day!!

Weather permitting, of course!!! LOL!

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