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[color:"orange"] HAPPY BIRTHDAY, QUEENIE! [/color] <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Happy Happy Birthday Queenie! I don't know what to say about the WH sighting. I'm sorry it went badly and that he was a jerk. Grrrrrrr. Just continue on with your plan, there is nothing to do about yesterday. Today is a new day, a special day, because this is the day that Queenie was born!
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEENIE!!!
No 2x4's today sweetie. But to answer your question, of course he's going to miss you. There is 25 years + that he was in a realtionship with you, and until now he hasn't had the need to miss you becasue he knows when he needed something, you where there. It will be a big shock when that's all gone.
One note from reading about the timming of your PBL and LSA. I would consider letting the LSA be served first and get the financal agreement be settled before giving him the PBL. I just think that if you give him the PBL first, he'll just make all kinds of waves and use finances to make your life more difficult.
I'm still there with you dear, and you're always in my prayers.
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FWW 41
DD 16
DD 11
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Happy Birthday Queenie!!from a fellow piscean(I'm the 1st)
Be brave and be strong.Whats WH going to do about "the field" when you're in plan B?
Plan B will be a real test for him.
Will check in on you later..have a great day!!
BS;ME43,WH45
DS19,DS16
DDay:6Dec06
WH left12Dec06
DIV:3Dec08
WH marries OW 21days later!
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Happy Birthday Queenie!
I've been thinking about you but I've caught the crud so I came home from work yesterday and am not going in today. Bleh.
Silly Waywards-they are always the center of their own universe.
I just wanted to let you know that you are very special and you have become that "a place of refuge" for your children because of your faith. (Prov 14:26).
Have a great day!
johnstwin-
"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther
Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!
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Queenie,
Happy B-Day!!!!
That's for Birthday and Plan B Day.
Hope you find many blessings today.
Happily married to HerPapaBear
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Thank you so much Exodus, PM, TMTS, Hope, JT and Sexy. I appreciate your wishes. You are making my day with your thoughts. Thank you so much. PM, WH wasn't a jerk. He just was full on WH and I DON'T like HIM. I miss MY H. I miss my BEST FRIEND, I miss the FATHER of my children who I can problem solve things with. He was just the TYPICAL GARDEN VARIETY ALIEN MONSTER. And it caught me off guard. A good lesson for me that I have to put a deeper FAITH and TRUST in G-d because I DIDN'T Plan to see him, it just HAPPENED. Silly me, seeing him wasn't on MY TERMS, it was G-ds and I ran scared and just got hurt. I'm embarrased that I wasn't stronger for you on here. I should have immediately done my best Plan A, but I felt like I was lying to him or witholding information, which I am and that made me uncomfortable. I am one messed up person. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Last edited by QueeniesNewLife; 03/07/08 09:54 AM.
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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I'm embarrased that I wasn't stronger for you on here. This is what you have to work on right here. You have to do things for you not us, not him, not just your kids... And remember that the reason you are going to Plan B is not to make him miss you...It is so you can stop missing him so much and hurting so much from dealing with him and his bovine excrement. Dropped you a card on another thread, but Happy Birthday, Queenie. Mark
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This is what you have to work on right here.
You have to do things for you not us, not him, not just your kids... I think you are right on this one. No, I totally get why I am going into Plan B. I just want it to be a side benefit. Bovine Excrement? I LOVE THIS... You are right as usual. Thank you for the card <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I really am having a wonderful day. My one coworker is taking me to lunch, my boss just gave me an amazing bowl and is taking me to my favorite local fancy restaurant, my other co-worker got me a very touching card, my friend just gave me the most beautiful Willow Tree Figurine on Friendship, and I feel VERY LOVED.... Oh and one close friend who doesn't work with me any longer, dropped off a fake four leaf clover flower. Which is such a blessing because I kill a plant by looking at it. The biggest present I could get today is that someone on here who is hurting as deeply as I do at times, feels relief and knows that they are as special to G-d as everyone else. That would be the best day of all to bring happiness to one person and help them through their pain.
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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Beautiful birthday to you, Fair Queenie...
Your birthday wish was already granted, btw.
Nice one.
Hope a lurker or poster will let you in on it. If not, just know it, 'k?
LA
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In Honor of our QUEEN FOR A DAY ...CLICK HERE... Laughter is the Best Medicine.... I'm so thankful you were born... You've become such a DELIGHT and INSPIRATION to all of us.. How old are you anyways???? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Queenie, in honor of your birthday, I am going to sing you a birthday song in one of my favorite languages. Can you guess which language?
Pen Blwydd Hapus i ti
Pen Blwydd Hapus i ti
Pen Blwydd Hapus annwyl Queenie
Pen Blwydd Hapus i ti!
And yes, I can pronounce it correctly and sing on key!
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Your birthday wish was already granted, btw. Then it's a totally awesome birthday. thank you for letting me know Loving. I hope that person knows how dear they are and how much I pray for their recovery even if I don't know them. As always Miss Mimi, you are so right. Laughter is the best medicine of all and I am truly grateful I still have that. You are too kind to me with your words. I am just one grateful person to have gotten to this website and been aloud to become part of this amazing support community. It's my hope that truly I am able to bring comfort to those suffering on here and know that G-d is smiling up above knowing I am doing his work and it is good. I am 47. Pretty old. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
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Willow Trees????
I LOVE them. I collectg them. My kids and hubby give them to me as gifts. I am sure that the artist was peeking into my home when she was creating those mother/child ones.
They touch my heart so deeply. I cry every time I get one.
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Thank you so much Chrysalis,
Would that be French? My languages are pretty limited to Hebrew, English and Spanish. Maybe a touch of Yiddish.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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I really love this one. It sits behind my desk and is watching over me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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A close but more ancient cousin to French. Welsh.
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French would be....
Bonne Fete Queenie,
Bonne Fete Queenie,
Bonne fete, bonne fete
Bonne fete Queenie.
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Did you click on the QUEEN FOR THE DAY video?
Is that you in those HARLEQUIN GLASSES?
If 47 is OLD, I'm ANCIENT..LOL...
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Queenie, I hope that you have a great birthday. I sorta remember 47, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> tis but a distant memory.......... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Who
I am the BW,
He is the FWH
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