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Update:
WS still has not move out, an is still seeing OM. The OM's ex is suing for full custody of his kids basically saying the h*** hole he is living in is not suitable for the kids.
WS has not seen all the red flags and still thinks this OM is good.
How long do affairs usually last? How long does the pain from the affair last for the BS.
I on't trust the guy. I have people tellinbg me he is a loser but my WS does not believe what people are telling me.
I need help, my kids are suffering fromn the fact their mommy leaves to be with OM.
She tells me what she is doing in wrong an if another person wasn't in the picture she wouldn't feel any different do I believe her and move on????
Thanks for the advice.
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Why do you choose to live like this? Why in the world are you exposing your children to her adultery for year after year? Have you considered seeing a psychologist to find out why you choose to live like this and why you won't protect your kids?
The problem here is not your wife, it is YOU, sbecker.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I know it is hard for me to let go. I have known WS for 25 years. She will be out of the house before Christmas. Today is DS 10th b-day so I can't throw her out today!!!!
Thanks
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SB,
I really FIND this is about your walk of FAITH with G-d. I have NO suggestions, just empathy of where you are at.
All I can SAY is follow G-ds will and you will be OK, no matter what the outcome is.
I KNOW, way easier for me to say, but TRUST me it ISN'T.
I am SCARED to DEATH right now to do something that will make my WH mad at me.
SG
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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