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Folks, I need fast advice on an email exchange between myself and my WW. I confronted her last night, she was claiming NC, but was still having contact. I busted her, told her the OM neighbors saw her. Now she is pissed (obviously) but can I get help on how to respond to her? She wants to end everything, yada yada but I really need some support and suggestions. Sorry about cross-posting <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> The link is below. SweetGuys Main Thread
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SGL69, what are your personal boundaries re: recovery ?
Meaning what are the minimum inviolable minimum standards of behaviour will to tolerate from your W an d still remain in your M trying to recover ?
One of mine was transparency, another verifiable NC.
Without these I would eventually have left our M to save my dignity.
What are YOUR personal boundaries ?
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my response would be simple... i am not leaving my house
you've been in plan a for what 9 months? dude she is seeing another man after 9 months of plan a... time for plan b or your head is going to implode
btw didn't u mention something about her losing custody of a child? aren't there other children in the home?
FBH, 39
Now a primary custody dad
New life began June 2008
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