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The OW's days are NUMBERED and she knows it. That is why she is SO SCARED of you. muhahahahhahhaahaaaa
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The emails they sent back and forth just real hurt, oh i love you, oh i'm so happy with you, oh i can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together. ACK! And don't forget the LOVEBUSTING!! All this lovebusting is draining da ole lovebank fast! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> 1. first she had a problem because he wasn't moving his stuff out of his "ex-house" fast enough, 2. now she would rather he visit his kids when I'm not here! UGH!!!! 3. she also mentioned something about little steps towards D, which
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The emails they sent back and forth just real hurt, oh i love you, oh i'm so happy with you, oh i can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together. ACK! STANDARD BS..means nothing..I'm sure my WH and his OW wrote the same kind of crap... Her "SOUL MATE" (what she called him) is right here with me... My H left all his condo furniture with ME and all of his clothes and I found out that she used to BEG him for the furniture..I moved it right over into this house...when they went to the condo, after the false recovery, they had to sit on the floor..LOL..STANDARD AFFAIR STUFF, SS... I'm sorry that you had to read it though but it's GREAT that you got that info..
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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The emails they sent back and forth just real hurt, oh i love you, oh i'm so happy with you, oh i can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together. Prepubescent fantasy fog babble. Don't pay any attention to that... pay attention to his actions... and when you read his emails you're looking for a weak spot in the affair... Not the love crap... just like mel said... The next thing you know she'll be saying "I love you to infinity and beyond"... Toy story how romantic... Thats even worse than Prepubescent fantasy fog babble.... Elementary school fantasy fog babble?
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
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Too bad some anonymous person could not send the OW this: "1. How often (percentage-wise) do As end? Is 97% correct? My experience, and the experience of other professionals is that about 95% of all affairs either end by one person deciding to end it, or that it dies a natural death. Of the five percent that end in marriage, about 70% of those end in divorce. There are a host of reasons that romantic relationships that start with an affair are so fragile, but the main reason is that they are based on deceit, thoughtlessness, and dishonesty. Those characteristics eventually find themselves permeating the affair itself. They eventually find themselves being deceitful, thoughtless, and dishonest toward each other." Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr, psychologist and reknowned expert in infidelity. Author and founder of Marriage Builders <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> The future does not LOOK BRIGHT FOR THE OW!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> I fear disappointment may be her lot in life. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I fear disappointment may be her lot in life. LOL... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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oh goody....Serenity your back....did you write back to him yet??? what did you say????
OK, here's a question, how the heck does a BS read those emails, and not go to WS and not LB?? I mean how the heck does one cool down??? Just preparing guys.....
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OK, here's a question, how the heck does a BS read those emails, and not go to WS and not LB?? I mean how the heck does one cool down??? Just preparing guys..... They don't allow themselves to REACT.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Too bad some anonymous person could not send the OW this:
"1. How often (percentage-wise) do As end? Is 97% correct? I’ll send it… I’ll make a new yahoo email account to send it from…. Hmmm…. What should my user name be??? YOUR_A_SLUT@YAHOO.COMYOUR_A_HOMEWRECKER@YAHOO.COMYOUR_A_DUMBITCH@YAHOO.COMLOL... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Any other Ideas???
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
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Boy, are they right SS. This bodes very, very well for you! Now you know your power over this! See what snooping can do? It doesn't mean you are following him or reading every email or revolving your life around it, just getting enough knowledge to fight the war. (SS-I'm NOT talking 2 you here!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />) When he brings it up again (and I would ignore it till he does) use Mel's line. Sneak up to your room right before he leaves and spray the perfume so it's nice and wet and fresh right in the middle of your chest and then give him a BIG HUG (so good, B!)...the kiss in the middle of the forehead (or on the cheek) was priceless, too, Amazin (I busted a GUT over the slut juice panties!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />) Tell him you love him and you'll see him next time he comes to see the kids.... Hehehehe...let the warthog start wallowing in the mud!!
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i don't think he'd ever tell me that she doesn't want him over here, so i can't reverse bable that one.
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lol, amazin! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Plan A your assss off ..... leave sexy notes in his pockets, his wallet .... flash him your boobs next opportunity !!!
light his fire - and leave marks
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amazin... love the email addresses, only problem, if they ONLY use these emails for each other they'd figure out I knew his password.
Not2, i don't remember lol, i'd have to go back and read it, but there wasn't a hint of LBs to be found and I know i made him feel bad, we're on chatting now, of course no talk about anything important.
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It doesn't matter if he tells you or not... you know it... take advantage of it... Keep him at your house as long as you can when he comes to visit... you know she's already in-secure about him being there with you... so turn the heat up and make her stress some more... perfume... lipstick... panties... If you do it right she'll be riding his butt the moment she sees him...Let her LB on him... He wont like it... Then a week later when she opens his glove box... it's gonna start all over again.... LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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Take a pix of yourself using his cell phone - put it as his wallpaper
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he said this..
I guess i'm just a fu** up... I don't want to hurt
you, I'm not tryign to hurt you deliberatly. I'm not
really sure what you want from me. Other than me
coming back... I guess the truth is i don't see me
coming back. I think that having dinner together is
nice.... but I think it's giving you false hope. I
know I've made mistakes a plenty and I realize that
you consider what I'm doing a mistake.
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amazin... love the email addresses, only problem, if they ONLY use these emails for each other they'd figure out I knew his password. I know... I was just tryin to insert some humor...Hope you liked it... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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I know... I was just tryin to insert some humor...Hope you liked it... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> LOVED it, it doesn't have me ROFLMAO, but that could be the mood, it did get a smirk!
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i'm sure this has been covered before in Alien babble 101 but when can you believe what they say... some of the things he says to me in emails are (at least to me) heart felt... do I just go with the belief that anything he says right now is babble??
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