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Staying when he didn't have to is HUGE!
You don't need a response - be assured you got under his skin.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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WHY YOU LITTLE.... You totally had me going...I was stoked...and then, sigh. Now that I know you have it in ya, that what I EXPECT you to do the next time...only when you get into it, say...ya know, I'm really not comfortable with this knowing you're going home to her. And get dressed, smear some make-up on his stuff and crinkle it...then call her when he leaves. HA! I DARES YA! I TRIPLE DOG DARES YA!!! Sheesh...gonna figure out a way to get ya back for that one, sista! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Now Serenity.....
You are a BALD FACED LIAR......LMAO......now I need to go to the ER so they can fix my jaw that is now out of line....
Well, hear is a nice little "fantasy" for you to share with WS...except leave the last part out....
Now, Lala, I usually don't disagree with you on advice, but I don't think she should "c%^$-tease" WS, no matter how much he deserves it...I would think that would be a MAJOR LB...the guys could chime in on this one.......but thats JMHO...
((((Serenity))))
Honestly, you are doing great and I know you love and miss your H, but you need to prepare for Plan B....what's a time frame for you???? I think I am going to pick out a date this weekend....
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lol ;-) (((not))) I really don't know if it's time for plan B yet... I know there was a time that I was saying there is no way I could do a plan B... then I was making up my own modified plan B, was told no, no! I'm going to spend some time reading plan B stuff this weekend, so ask me again later and we'll see if I can set a date too.
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oh and the liar part was not for your story,....it was for you saying you couldn't tell him any fantasies.....well now we know.....lol
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oh... I got him going soooo good the other night when he was working. It was great!! Although I didn't tell him it was a fantasy, I told him it was a dream I had the night before. It was naughty ;-) And it went on for quite some time. I soooo wish I had saved the conversation we had, I should have saved it and printed it, but didn't think about it until it was too late... oh well next time.
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LOL,
You made my night. Thank you.....
It looks like you and I are heading into Plan B at the same time. I think we will be holding each other up.
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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Oh good grief, NOT...I was just kidding with her. Although it WOULD be funny! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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ss I agree with n2f, just share that little month early April fools with H before you go into Plan B. I want to know why you haven't used your info to fight this war more. I know Plan B is on the horizon, but girl, you have to understand what your H has needed. Refer to my last post. And no, you do NOT need the opposite of viagra, you need to fulfill your H's NEEDS, and what he has needed is as plain as the nose on your face. And I have a strange feeling that ow knows this, and she will LB if he continues seeing you, and she HAS been fulfilling WS's need for SF, and that is where HE is at right now. Sorry for the 2x4. But that needs to happen before plan B. And before you do, tell me, how are you supposed to fulfill your WS's #1 need of SF, if you CAN"T do that because of whatever? Get tested for STD's first. Go ahead and flame me everyone! Love in Christ, Miss M <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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And use protection. Though not foolproof, it is a great improvement over nothing.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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I don't know if you are all ready for this. So WH runs kids to dentist appts... here and there... texts saying son and he are going to movie, and then oops change of plans else where, per sons idea... then what time he'd be home. Well girls were ;-) at their friends for the evening and WH was dropping son off at drivers ed and then coming over for dinner with me and the girls. So he thought, I got rid of the girls ;-) So... he walks in and the table is set... enchilladas his favorite! Candles and wine glasses. I was just taking the enchies out of the stove when he walked in. I was wearing my new VS sexy pink pj's and the f-me heals I picked up this summer. Lets just say... enchies got cold!! and then when he left, I called warthog and said "guess what I just did?! Yep that's right I just did your boyfriend in the kitchen and the dining room!!" She just slammed the phone down! Oh shoot it's not April 1st... darn I'm a few weeks early!! That's just wrong... Had me goin good too... I was all.... Yea!!!! then awwww.... man... Ya got me good though.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Neak is right... He stayed longer than he had to... that's a good sign.
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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ROFLMAO!!!! That was awesome. Now when are you going to actually do it. (Minus calling the wathog). Mind you that punch line did make the whole joke work.
Ya, you deffinatly do not sound like someone ready for plan B. The fact that you are having fun with Plan A is good but sick. LOL
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I read that last night and I almost responded to you (about what DIDN'T happen) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I was like, you go girl... and to tell you that when my FWH was a wayward he spent NY Eve with me (was drunk when he got there, drank more when we went out, and ended up passing out on my couch). I didn't want OW to know that, so I called her up and said, "Guess who's slept with me tonight?". She was all kinds of PO'd. The thing is WH couldn't remember anything the next day so he couldn't refute it.
I agree, I don't think you're ready for Plan B yet. His staying longer than necessary (actions) is telling.
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Oh good grief, NOT...I was just kidding with her. Although it WOULD be funny! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> ok good, I wasn't sure.... (((Serenity))) How are things going there??? Just wanted to check in with you this morning. Me?? I have anpther snow day...which means this storm system could be headed YOUR way... Anyway, what is on the plate for this weekend??? not2fun
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Glad I could lighten the mood for everyone. I have been more upbeat lately, even annoying my girls, they roll their eyes at me when they think I'm having a bit too much fun. Not my fault I like the music they like.
So he didn't respond to the tm I sent last night... I haven't called or tm today, he did pick up son about an hour ago playing taxi dad I'm sure he's loving having to drive across town to do this, but I'm working. Don't know when I'll see him again. He works nights this weekend, I hope warthogs piglets do a lot so squealin' and keep him awake ;-) Anyway I'm thinking of keeping busy this weekend and let him wonder what I'm doing.
Yeah! come on snow from N2 come this way! Too funny that the schools were all off this week for Feb vacation and we didn't have any storms that would have kept them out of school. So far we've had 10 snow/ice days!
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what to do, what to do? oh yeah I remember be still... have patience. YUCK!!
ok so all communication today has been initiated by him. I don't want to be a "pest"... but how do I make sure he knows I'm thinking about him?
so he texted me to let me know varsity bball won! daughter plays on the freshmen team... so i texted him back (after awhile) that he should think about taking her to the game at the civic center next saturday (of course I'd tag along), he tm'd right back saying maybe.
He's at work, not chatting or emailing so either he can't or he's too busy chattin' with the warthog- who would be sooo pissed if he went with us next weekend!
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I don't want to be a "pest"... but how do I make sure he knows I'm thinking about him? Out of the blue when he's not expecting it... Send him a text that say's just that... "I was just thinking about you" "You're in my thoughts" Something simple and to the point. If you want to be creative send a phone picture with a message... Be creative... Take a picture of a paper heart with the same message...Make sure it's legible and he can read it...Or send him a nice picture of you with the same text... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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((((Serenity)))))
How was your night??? Good I hope. Have you ever read Mark's Fishing Musings??? You need to read it if you haven't. He compares fishing to getting your mate back....
About next weekend, that would be great..but remember NO EXPECTATIONS...OR AT LEAST...EXPECT TO BE HURT...
Anyway, I'll check on you tomorrow...
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((((Serenity)))))
How's it going today???? What is the game plan today???
Me..I'm getting off here in a second.....taking a shower, then working on my basement....I know I keep saying I'm working on it, but I swear when I get down there it is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad, I hardly do anything and then give up....NOT TODAY though....gonna work hard for 2 hours on it....then tonight Dad and I are going to see the "Bucket List"....everyone who has seen it says it's funny and its not a romance, so that sounds just like something I need...
Anyway, keep busy, no contacting WS today....oh,,,, and read the Fishing Musings thread....
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Worked for a bit today. Got groceries. TM WH around the time he would be waking up saying how I would sure like to be climbing in bed with him right now and waking him up... he responded, liked it and asked for more. Was probably a foolish waste of time on my part.
This evening I realized he had said earlier in the week that he was going to spend time with the kids this afternoon, guess who didn't show up OR even call them. Yep, it a bad mood at him again! The more I think about his behavior and actions over the past few years I feel bad for him and really believe he's suffering from depression. Maybe she'll help him, maybe she won't.
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