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Hey, if that means you a little bit closer to Plan B...I say yeah.....
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nope... still full of Plan A thoughts and ideas, just being more patient, still, and not expecting Anything!
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Love the song SS... LaLa is right.... You already know how to get the OW to LB him... She's intimidated by your presence in WH's life... She's worried that he's going to come back and work on the marriage... Make her worry until she sprouts more warts... You don't have to be obnoxiose about leaving your mark... Just getting your husband to spend more time with you and the family will make her head spin... (The lipstick, panties and perfume stuff might make it explode...LOL) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
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I like that song so much maybe I'll make it a ring-back for when my WW calls... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Or I could just send it to her phone as a message... Do you think that would be an LB?...LOL Ok... Maybe not... but it would make me feel better for a couple of minutes... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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Played the song for the kids and 13yo says are you going to say that to dad? I said you know what the middle finger means? She said yes, I said "No, I'm not going to say that to him." They definately all think he deserves it. LOL
Snow day... got to sleep in. I still went in and put a half days worth of work in.
Haven't seen WH since... Monday.... and I'm fine! He texts me first for the most part.
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I LOL when I heard that song. Betcha we've all (BS's) felt like that at one time. Hugs, SS, I'm so jealous of your snow!
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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well it WASN'T even snow, it was freezing rain and sleet... had to scrape half an inch off the windows- ok not half an inche, but it sure felt like it.
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I want a (another) snow day... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
I'll probably just get rain...
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D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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Trust me we're all soooo sick of the snow here, most of the older people are saying this is the kind of winter they remember when they were kids.
MIL called to see how I was doing. We've been emailing a little bit. But I complained to WH about lack of family support, I bet he emailed her and mentioned it. I'll have to snoop ;-) She's nice, not happy with what he's doing, but won't say anything to him. And she's BTDT, guess she must not remember the pain it caused.
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SS where are You? Just currious. I've been dissapointed in the snowfall amounts here...
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;-) N.E. Actually the snows beautiful, school systems aren't too happy with all the snow days. The price of oil to heat our homes has really sky rocketed, but I love it up here!
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I know what you mean about the Oil... I was going to put a pellet stove in our home... it was going to be delivered 2 days after my wife told me she was moving out... needless to say I stopped the stove and got my money back... That was in December.
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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SS, Where you at girl? I'm worrying about you... Just checking on ya to see if you're still alive. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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LOL, yes still alive, sorry, didn't notice that my thread had been posted on.
So WH is doing LOTS of overtime... oh too bad for OW hahah, I hope she's hating it!!
Doesn't give me any time to see him either, but that's better than having him over there rolling in the... yeah anyway!
I actually looked forward to this weekend... to relax, not get up early, usually the weekend depresses me... not this time ;-) I know where WH will be... working, I'll be here with the kids and it'll be peaceful!!
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Guess what...that's what Plan B feels like (or so I am told) after a couple weeks...think about DAT, hon!
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Tomorrow they were to have an Easter Egg hunt at church. It has been cancelled because of snow.
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so, wh is coming for dinner today... he im'd me last night saying can it be ready by (certain time)... the nerve... like it's a chore for him to drive the whole three miles over here and sit and have a meal with HIS FAMILY! I'm actually not in the mood to clean house and make a meal for him. I'll do it, but I'm tired, was down ALL day yesterday with a migraine. I guess I'm getting used to him not being around, how sad. I still want him home, but... he's a lot of work.
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Hope you will make the effort to get the house sparkling clean and welcoming. Also hope you make something yummy.
Remember, affairs always end, and you want to be the attractive alternative.
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What you're not getting Serenity is that fixing dinner for your family and keeping a clean house is GOOD and RIGHT regardless of whether your H is home or not. IMO this is your purpose/mission as the WIFE/MOTHER of your household. Are you familiar with PROVERBS 31:10-31 (THE WIFE OF NOBLE CHARACTER -NIV)?
PLAN A is about making changes in YOURSELF..being the BEST PERSON that YOU can be..not just to PLEASE HIM...
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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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