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Say it ain't so! We haven't lost another vet have we?!?!


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I was wondering that myself. Maybe she is taking a bit of a holiday.

We all need that from time to time.

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MelodyLane has assisted me greatly with a recent issue by helping me to see things from a different viewpoint.
I sure hope she's OK.


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Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Cheer up everyone. She's probably taking a break.

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Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

BA, you are a sick and twisted individual. Go away.


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BestAngel, BestAdvisor, BestAdvisor1, BestAdvisor2:

Since you’ve seen fit to post on this thread to push people’s buttons. I’d like you to answer the questions I posed to you on an earlier thread, which are below:

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[color:"blue"]BestAngel, BestAdvisor, BestAdvisor1, BestAdvisor2:

There have been several instances of game playing on your part since arriving on MB:

1. Multiple usernames
2. Stealing usernames of well respected posters (Schoolbus to name one)
3. Using the quote feature to capture a vet's (Orchid) cell number where she could no longer delete it

What is different now where we should respect you as a serious and sincere poster? [/color]

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p.s. Princess Meggy: I apologize for the TJ. Please forgive.

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Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.

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p.s. Princess Meggy: I apologize for the TJ. Please forgive.

No problem. Those are good questions that we would all like the answers to but I wouldn't hold your breath. As BA has demonstrated over and over again, the likelihood of BA being honest about anything is practically nil.


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Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

Which will change daily.

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2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

You gave NO Such notice. You said that you could take her place. You said nothing about STEALING her username and sneakily trying to make people believe that you were her. EVERYTHING she said about you was true.

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3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

Another lie. You didn't delete it until you were called on it.

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I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.

I've yet to see you make one joke. You might try telling the truth about your background so people MIGHT begin to take you seriously.


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But you know what BA? This thread isn't about you. Please do not post on my threads in the future. Go away.


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BA:

I also asked you some questions in another thread that IMHO you should answer.

I wanted to know why you are posting here, why you came here, how old you are, what connection you have in your life to the topic of adultery?

Are you, or somebody you know, a BS, WS, or OP?

Also, it should have been clear to you way before now that the things you post are not considered funny.

Please show consideration for those posting here because of what they are having to go through.

Have the courtesy to answer the questions and to stop posting in a way that offends.

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Please don't feed the trolls. This is exactly what the "ignore feature" was really designed for. Like affairs need secrecy to thrive, trolls need attention to survive.....any kind of attention. The most effective thing you can do to neutralize (and infuriate) this person....is to act as though he/she is invisible.

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Appreciate you chimimg in, SF. But I have my reasons.

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I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here.

Well Thank God you've learned something here...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

BA, jokes are amongst FRIENDS...You have done absolutely NOTHING to endear yourself to ANYONE here...How in the world would you think that joking would be appropriate here for you??? Are you seriously that dense??? Good grief!!! Further, joking that you could EVER replace long time valuable members of this board is in really poor taste...I'm not surprised though, poor taste seems to be your forte...

And Starfish, you may handle trolls in any way that you choose...Please respect the right of others to choose for themselves in the matter...Thanks!

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FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
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Well..I guess we can expect another Melodylane to show up....sheeeesh. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.

Thank you for responding, BA.

I'm encouraged to know you understand the cyber game playing you attempted is inappropriate on this forum. The infidelity boards, GQII and the OC board in particular, are full of hurt and pain. We need members that will lift up other members and assist them in understanding and using the Harley's principles.

If you haven't already, I would strongly advise you read the forum articles by the Harley's to understand those methods and principles.

If you want to play cyber games, there are plenty of chat rooms and other BB created specifically for that type of entertainment.

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And Starfish, you may handle trolls in any way that you choose...Please respect the right of others to choose for themselves in the matter...Thanks!


agreed.

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Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Cheer up everyone. She's probably taking a break.

Did your mom say it was okay for you 2 use her computer?

-ol' 2long

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now THAT was funny!

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Well..I guess we can expect another Melodylane to show up....sheeeesh. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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That is TOO funny because that's exactly what I was thinking was next on the agenda.


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