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Hi everyone, If anyof you have been following my posts in the other forums...you'll know I have been going through a seriously tuff time here. I have also come to a crossroad in my life and I am not entirely sure which road to take.
My prayer request is that I need guidence and advice on which of hte paths to choose-
A- work to repair marriage with seperated wife
B- persue new relationship with friend I have made in the area. It would appear that we have a lot in common and both seem to like each other.
C- do neither and run away from any further relationships to avoid ever getting hurt again.
This is the point of my life that I am at now. There was a alternate path, but that one is blocked off for now..this path was the one to my own demise...I know I have been slowly moving forward..and I do mean slowly but I don't want to make the wrong choice yet again...but I also do not want to be alone or hurt either. This is quite a intersection here...3 different paths to choose and all lead in the exact opposite directions and all have definate posabilities for future.
I will say that the one path I really do not want to choose is the path to being alone...but the other 2 I am split 50/50 here.
Once was happy, once had a family, once was married...now just alone and miserable.
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Big changes have taken place here with the choices. Path " c " is not a option anymore...path " b " seems to be looking less and less likely, path " a " seems to be what my heart and gut feel is the tight course to choose. please see most recent post in divorcing/divorced forum for overview of the whole story.
Also a new prayer request:
I need guidance to get a stable career somewhere...I can't seem to get a door to open up for me, but I know that when God closes a door, HE always openes up a window. I just need to find that window.
Once was happy, once had a family, once was married...now just alone and miserable.
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Prayer requests for guidance and help no longer needed...if you feel like you need to still pray for me, then how about I acquire a life terminating disease...that way i won't have to live with all of the pain and suffering my 2nd wife has ran me through...nothing else matters to me anymore...once your heart has been crushed into oblivion then there is no need to go on in life anymore.
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