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Re: Husband engaged already? PLEASE HELP
Unconditional #2014850 02/10/08 06:39 PM
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I hardly think it's fair that I can never visit my friends because they happen to live in the same place as he does. I lived there for 8 years.

D Day PA 11/22/07, PA started 11/10/07 WH Engaged to OW by 12/07/07 WH 41 BS 37 OW 25 DD 3 Married 10 Years + 3 years cohabitation DS5 WH moved to another country 01/27/08
Re: Husband engaged already? PLEASE HELP
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I can understand that...

If my wife and I were from the same home town and she had an affair with someone there... I'm sure I would want to go home to my family and my support group at some time.

Is that about the same?

BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
Re: Husband engaged already? PLEASE HELP
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A- yes that's about it. My best friend is there. They are all there and they've been with me every step of the way. My JOB is to walk away with dignity if I see them together. And I have to prepare myself for that to happen. But it's not the plan to go out of my way to find them. I have to say the thought of locking eye with the predator fills me with dread but I am the bigger person and can walk away.

D Day PA 11/22/07, PA started 11/10/07 WH Engaged to OW by 12/07/07 WH 41 BS 37 OW 25 DD 3 Married 10 Years + 3 years cohabitation DS5 WH moved to another country 01/27/08
Re: Husband engaged already? PLEASE HELP
Unconditional #2014853 02/10/08 06:53 PM
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You respond fast....lol....

I definately can relate to you wanting to go "home".

If it's good for you and your soul then go to your support group. That's my 2 cents worth...lol

I'm guess I'm lucky because I have a very big family with alot of doting sisters... (4 brothers and 6 sisters... I'm the Baby <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> )

BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
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