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Hello again everyone. All is still going well in my house. OW emailed husband yesterday and he came and told me as soon as he opened it. We discussed the email and there will be no reply - no contact means just that - NO CONTACT. I am very optimistic about where our journey is taking us.

In a sick kind of way - this A changed our lives for the better. Has this happened to anyone else??

I have been more honest with him than I have ever been and I feel he has been being open with me also. We talk - MAKE time for us and continue to build a stronger foundation. I can now see how removed I was from him and he can see how starved for affection I was.

HNHN is right on the MONEY!!! I continue to thank my lucky stars for finding this site!! I am glowing, feel loved, respected and honored!


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Has your husband written a no contact letter to the OW? It is not good that she is continuing to email him.

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Hello - not an actual letter but he has told her not to contact him. If he writes a letter now wouldn't this invite converstaion?

He has changed his cell number - our home number no longer works - next is to get a new email address. She was contacting him at work (through pager) her works at a hospital but has not this week - I hope she is moving on........

Oh yes I hope.......


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Hi again - another update - well I had an emotional day this week. Husband said something that angered me and I went right back to hatred for him. My love bank was depleted.

Someone please tell me that it will not always be this way?

I stewed over the comment all day and afternoon then when I returned from work I told him we needed to talk. We spoke open and honestly and cleared the air. Feeling better again. A positive I would have held this anger for weeks before the A. We worked through the feelings and moved on.

Any words of wisdom?

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