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I'm new at this. I'm 20 years old and my husband is 28. We got married this last June so about 8 mounths. He masterbates some times. Not when I'm home,but I am home every night so why does he need to anyway. It realy bothers me. Should it? I have told him how I feal. He said it should not bother me and that he is a grown man. And that is just something they do.
Last edited by Doom; 02/07/08 04:34 AM.
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Dr. Harley recommends that spouses share their concerns with the other. Specifically, if something bothers you, you need to communicate this to your H. Calmly.
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I've never really seen what the issue is about it - UNLESS it is keeping him from being happy and healthy with you in bed, unless he is choosing not to have SF with you. If that is the case, it's a problem. If not, it really is just something many men do. They have a biologically stronger drive and many men would prefer to engage in SF a lot more often than women. That's how humans were created so they would procreate - the man chases the woman because he's turned on and wants some.
That said, if it's becoming an obsession, you need to address it.
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