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My MIL gave me her mothers quilts. They were not finished and needed work and I loved quilts. I never got around to doing anything with them and no longer have the space to store them.
My MIL passed away and I have been divorced for several years. I have not been in touch with my SILs recently, although we were always on good terms. I am not sure they would even be interested.
Do you think I should offer them the quilts or just do what I want with them? Somehow I am having a hard time thinking of getting rid of them .
Lora
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Absolutely offer them to the SIL and/or their children..its the right thing to do.
Me, 43
DS18, DD12
Divorce final May 10, 2007
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No brainer....offer them the quilts. Or, send them as gifts and let them know you were thinking about them, remember them fondly, hope they are well.
It's such a good opportunity to show consideration.
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Send them as a positive gesture.
You can even include in your note that if they don't wish to keep them, you'd be happy to keep them.
It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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