My WW admitted (and then subsequently dismissed) to an EA last night. Nothing more, and she doesn't think it's all that big a deal. By the time this morning rolled around it was business as usual...Now I'm not convinced that it's just been an EA by any measure, and because I'm impatient at this point I really want the full story, but it doesn't appear it's coming anytime soon.

The interesting thing was that the only reason I got her attention last night was that I hinted that I had some information that suggests she's been having more of a PA than EA, that got her attention. Also when I mentioned that in the future I would tell our children about it....she jumped on that as cruel etc. Obviously the kids are far too young right now, I was merely indicating that when they are old enough I may tell them how, why the marriage ended (as it appears to be heading that way).

She is still in a fog for sure, on one hand telling me she doesn't want to be with me, or be around me, or fight to save the marriage, and then being caring, and giving me a hug etc. Strange days indeed here....

I think you tricked her into indicating it was PA. The question is what you wish to do about it.

I'm not sure what to do yet? I'm still trying to get more info./evidence. Not sure whether to start Plan A including exposure, or that I don't have enough info. to expose yet. Any thoughts out there?

What evidence do you have?

You need to put a keylogger on the computer and check her cell phone calls on the bill. That should help you figure out what is going on.