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Everything she says tells me it is over for her? Then she sends mixed signals by doing things with me, and curling up next to me at night?

There is no marital relations involved, she refuses. She attacks any efforts I make at trying to work on myself and the marriage and is now telling me I have no right to talk to her mother about anything. (we live with her mother, and her mother has been and is a great source of support)

I am at my wits end, and am ready to throw in the towel and give up on this marriage. I can't stand living under the same roof as her right now, and I have shut down emotionally. I have been wanting to work things out, but she is making it impossible.

I need mentally sanity and this is not it right now!!


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How about just working on you for now? It sounds like you're not making much progress on either you or the marriage while you've been working on both. So maybe if you focus on just one thing, you'll start seeing some results. What do you think?


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