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I'm so happy for you Paul...that's great news! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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Paul...<P>I'm happy for you. Like airheart says, watch for the withdrawals. Keep doing the Plan A. It will show her that she made the right decision and came home to a wonderful man. Best of luck towards your marital recovery!
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Man - there is a God! Only good things for you and your W, I pray. I am so very happy for you. Man - after your sorrow yesterday - we told you - you would prevail! Hang in there and hang in there with us. Keep us posted.<P>------------------<BR>
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Hi Paul -<P>I am so happy for you both!!!<P>Remember - slow and easy, lots of patience and love and share all that you've learned about communication and needs!!<P>God Bless you and guide you.<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba
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Paul, That is great news!!! Take it slow and easy. This is the place to come when you want to vent or feeling frustrated. Tow book I have just finished might help a little. "Surviving Infidelity" by Rona Subotnik and Gloria G. Harris, and "Getting Back Together" by Bilicki and Goetz. Like everyone else has already said watch out for withdrawal. My prayers and thoughts are with the two of you as go down this road together. And that is the important thing to remember together! I am so happy for you both. Paul read Survivingloss---sosad's thread. It might helpyou understand what you W will be going through during the withdrawal.<P>------------------<BR>di<P><p>[This message has been edited by SDS (edited October 13, 1999).]
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Paul, <P>Congrats <P>You are right, it is better now that she is home. <BR>You are also right in that you have a long way to go. Patience, lots and lots of patience. Withdrawal is pretty tough too.<P>Sorry, I hope I'm not being a downer.<P>SHA
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Paul,<P>I'm soooo happy for you. You deserve this. Now remember to take slow and <BR>easy. We are here for your support.<BR>God bless
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Paul,<BR>This is sooooo GREAT!!!!!<BR>Must have been the Flowers!!!!<BR>Keep bringing them! <BR>Give that Teddy Bear a Special place in your Home too!<BR>(REALLY, IT WAS ALL YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!) <BR>Almost <P>----------<BR>TIME
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Paul,<P>Praise the Lord. I am so grateful that this is coming out this way for you. I just love the success'. Yeah, yeah, yeah!!!!!! I will continue to lift you and your wife up in prayer. Yes, you have a long road ahead of you but, with God on your side how can you not win???? You will be great.<P>I am so darned happy for you. <P>Oooohhh this has made this evening a feel good one. Thanks for sharing the great news.<P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>
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Wow! That's great! Listen to the advice here...you will be tempted to want to fix everything right away. Be sure to be what SHE needs right now. There is time later to fix all the little things (you never fix me coffee, etc.) Just learn how to be friends again and relax and have some good times together.
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Paul<P>WOW! Great news, lifting the spirits of everyone here. <P>Keep us posted and stick with it.
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Wonderful news Paul... <P><P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>
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Great News, Paul.<P>I'm trying hard not to be envious.<P>------------------<BR>7Habits (Dane)<BR>"The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them." Einstein.<BR>
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May the Force be with you..................
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Paul,<BR>I'm happy for you too !<BR>Hang in there, don't read too much into what she says and does as she will be trying to sort out what she has done and what she needs to do. She probably will be trying to save some face, so she may be cool towards you and beating herself up inside.<P>Just be there for her!
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Congratulations <P>I'll be praying so very hard for you and your wife. Remember to keep her... <B>by <I>your</I> side</B>.<P>Jim<P>-----------<BR>I can dare myself... I'll put a pebble in my shoe...<BR>I can walk... I can walk! I shall call the pebble Dare...<BR>Dare shall be carried... And when we both have had enough<BR>I will take him from my shoe, singing... "Meet your new road!"...<BR>Finally glad... Finally glad... That you are here... By my side...<BR>
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I want to thank everyone who responded to this post, it means alot when you know there is support for the bad times and the good times, even though I think right this is in between. So here goes...<P>Thanks to:flipper;covenant;Maya;WhoDat;Hummingbird;<BR>Chris (CA123);Alcoholic's Wife;Empty Shell;mkn;Butterfly;zombie;heartache;lostva;<BR>Liz Smith;joanie;airheart;Holly;NoTrust;trying2_4give;Daycare Disaster;Sheba;SDS;Nellie1;Sir Hurts Alot;heavenknows2;Almost Happy;<BR>Samantha-MI;Animac;awoken;new_beginning;<BR>7Habits;Kate;RWD;sosad;NSR<P>If I missed anyone let me know <P>I figured I'd take this little time because you took the time for me.<P>Last night was good. We seem to be doing the rubber band when it comes to comfortability.<BR>Every time something happens that makes us uncomfortable, I try to do something that pulls us back together. Last night was a bubble bath for two! <P>Thanks again all!<P><BR>
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