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The movie "Into the Wild" just came out on DVD...started to watch it last night. It is based on "Jon Krakauer's haunting account of the meteoric passage of Chris McCandless, the vagabond loner who cut all ties with family and society, plunged into a remote outback, and unwittingly slipped into his own death trap"...

I was surprised to see the undercurrent of infidelity, problems in his parents' marriage was part of Chris McCandless's story when it was brought up early on in the film. I looked it up this morning to see if it was true and it is.

I thought some of you folks here would be as intrigued as I was... Here is an excerpt from an article I found if you are interested in reading more. http://www.nationalgeographic.com/adventure/news/into-the-wild.html.

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The core question for both the book and the film is, What ultimately made McCandless tick? What drove him not only to his manic escape from society and his solitary death in the wilderness, but to the passionate idealism that fueled it?

For Krakauer a breakthrough in understanding his protagonist came when he won the trust of Carine. Alienated from the family ménage herself, Carine chose to rebel in a more private, less spectacular fashion. Although she remains in regular contact with her parents, she keeps a certain psychic distance. As she told me over the phone, "I went away too. I left. There's just no movie about it."

Months into Krakauer's research, Carine pointed him toward a skeleton in the McCandless closet that seemed to explain her brother's estrangement from his parents. In 1986, after graduation from high school, Chris took off from the family home in Annandale, Virginia, on a cross-country ramble four years before he would leave for good. He eventually made his way to El Segundo, California, where he had lived with his family for the first six years of his life. He knew that his father, an aerospace engineer, had had a first marriage, producing six children. But Chris learned a murkier truth from family friends in El Segundo. Walt had not in fact divorced his first wife until well after Chris was born. In secret, he had kept up the relationship and had fathered another son two years after Billie had given birth to Chris.

In Krakauer's view, Chris came home from that trip with a "smoldering anger" that, after years of brooding upon the deception, would ultimately motivate
his headlong flight. And herein lay a deep linkage connecting Krakauer to McCandless.

Jon, as I had long known, had a difficult relationship with his own father. As he writes in Into the Wild: "Like McCandless, figures of male authority aroused in me a confusing medley of corked fury and hunger to please."

Sean Penn's film subscribes wholeheartedly to Krakauer's theory of Chris's emotional wound, which informs some unsettling depictions of his upbringing. In a particularly disquieting scene, Walt (played by William Hurt) screams at and threatens to strike a cowering Billie (Marcia Gay Harden), while a preteen Carine, half-hidden by a door frame, watches in frozen terror. In general, Hurt's Walt McCandless is a less than sympathetic figure—until near the end, when the father's grief and sorrow over his lost son begin to redeem him.




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I recommend the novel. It was SO, SO good. So riveting.

I couldn't get it out of my mind for weeks.

I read it a few years ago. I forgot that there was a movie now. Thanks for reminding me, tbp. I'm going to try and watch it this weekend.

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I am very sensitive to infidelity in TV and film. I did not get a bad vibe from this movie at all. I thought the movie was very well done and while some the splendor of the cinematography will be lost on a small screen, it is certainly worth a watch.

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I am fascinated by the story of Chris McCandless. I would like to read the book now.

I really appreciate the way the film touches on how finding out about his parents' affairage(he was conceived while his father was still married to his first wife) affected him and the role it played in the decisions that he made....

(narration by his sister in the film)
"Their fraudelent marriage and our father's denial of his other son was for Chris a murder of every day's truth. He felt his whole life turn like a river suddenly reversing uphill."



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Yep, book is great. He is definately one of the most POLARIZING figures in recent years, thats for sure.

Yeah, his dad had two families going at once.


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