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Should I be concerned about this? A few months ago my w's oral skills changed, she begin doing things she never did before. When I asked her about it she said she learned it from watching that Sue (don't remember her last name) program on Sun. nights. She spends alot of time online.
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Welcome. It is a good sign that she is picking up pointers, if that is the truth. I would install a keylogger on her computer just to check.
There is a lot of explicit information on "skills", and I think it is admirable that she is making an effort.
Are there other problems you are noticing in your marriage? Are you making a good attempt to identify and meet her top emotional needs? Do you spend 15 hours a week doing fun things together?
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Cofred,
Why are you starting a new thread? You posted on another thread about behavior of you and your wife. These other posts took place on 4/21. If you are serious about wanting help, please go back to your other thread and post this question on that thread. For those who want to respond to Cofred, please look at his other thread. I do not know how to link them.
Lake
BW-53
FWH-54
H had EA 3 weeks 06
Married 1977
N C 4-10-06
3 DSs
In Recovery
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Oops, Lake, I missed that.
Sounds like there are affairs going on. So much for my thoughts about how sweet wifey is to pick up new techniques for hubby.
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According to all the info in your first post, it is painfully evident that something is going on. What are you doing about it?
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