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ChaiLover #2055749 05/11/08 08:22 AM
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when my ex finally came to get his things, like almost 2 YEARS LATER i had it ALL out on the front porch and lawn so he wouldn't have to set one foot in the house. the police were there as well to watch him take it.

i was NOT letting him this house ever again.

mlhb


God first, family second, and all else will fall into place.

ChaiLover #2056391 05/12/08 02:24 PM
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HAH!! He'll be the one dribbling and drooling when he gets a load of my dancing gams!!!!

mlhbisme #2056392 05/12/08 02:25 PM
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Hmmmm....that's a GREAT idea! I wonder if I can do that here? The only problem is the bulk of the stuff, especially inventory items.

ChaiLover #2056396 05/12/08 02:26 PM
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Thank you, Chai!!!

jayne241 #2056401 05/12/08 02:28 PM
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LOL!! NO WAY, Freddo!!!

It's sweet and everything but I wouldn't go out with him even if I was unattached. Less than two minutes after he got there he is telling me, "You are hot!!" blah blah blah

Okay, sure, great for an ego boost but I know what would happen if I went out with him. I'd need a good supply of MACE!!!

Still hilarious that he thought I was 33, though! Gee, I hope I still look 33 tomorrow!!! LMAO!!!

Dancing_Machine #2056405 05/12/08 02:32 PM
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how old are you charlotte if you don't mind me asking??

mlhb


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Dancing_Machine #2056408 05/12/08 02:34 PM
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You'll do fine tomorrow Charlotte. You are going to LIGHT UP THAT ROOM!!!!


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mlhbisme #2056418 05/12/08 02:51 PM
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Hi mlhb,

No, I don't mind. I turned 42 on May 6th.

I feel a LOT younger, though. 20 years younger, at least. I think it's all of the physical activity. It's caused my circulation to get better and more blood flow to the brain. LOL!!

MicheleG #2056419 05/12/08 02:54 PM
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Thank you, MicheleG!!

I will!! I WILL!!!!!

But only because I lightened my teeth and my hair is lighter from working in the garden in the sun, LOL!!!

No, but really. I WILL!!!!!

He hasn't seen me since December 15th. I look a LOT different physically. Thanks to dancing, mostly.

I already know he, "Looks SO old," thanks to Shiny's paralegal. And she brought it up again the last time I talked to her.

So yeah, that's it!! My Shiny Attorney will be shiny and so will I!!!!!


Dancing_Machine #2056423 05/12/08 02:58 PM
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I just called Shiny's office to ask about some paperwork for tomorrow.

His paralegal answered. I didn't think he would be there since he'd said he had to be in another county this a.m.

He called in while I was talking to his paralegal. LOL!! So funny!!

I still need to know if he's going to go in the front door or the back door of the courthouse. Last time I used the back door but it was only because I had parked closer to it. Funny, because OWH did, too. So the three of us left by the back door last time.

I DO know that his other case was rescheduled. I'm like, how in the heck will you be in two places at once? LOL!!

So *PHEW!!* on that one!! 'Cause the other case was pretty darn far away in a bigger county!!


Dancing_Machine #2056449 05/12/08 03:20 PM
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wow, so you looked like 10 years younger! good for you girl!

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mlhbisme #2056471 05/12/08 03:48 PM
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Yeah! Thanks!

The vet's receptionist told me that a couple of months or so ago but now I have confirmation. LOL!!

It's because the stress and strain of carrying THEIR secret for SO LONG is GONE!!!!!!!!!

That's the main reason, I think.

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because of my blonde hair and fair skin i get the younger card as well. i am 37 but people usually assume i am in my mid to late 20's...

hey, i will take it!

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mlhbisme #2056498 05/12/08 04:15 PM
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I hear that!! I'm in!!


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Hey Charlotte,

Just wanted to let you know I'll be praying for you tomorrow, and wishing you the best. Remember you are WORTHY, and you deserve the best. grin

God Bless!
Love in Christ,
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Miss M #2056745 05/12/08 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss M
Hey Charlotte,

Just wanted to let you know I'll be praying for you tomorrow, and wishing you the best. Remember you are WORTHY, and you deserve the best. grin

God Bless!
Love in Christ,
Miss M

Thank you, Divine Miss M!!!!!!

I AM worthy!!!!! I DO deserve the best!!!!!

We are GOLDEN!!!!!!!!

Thank you!!!!!!

Yes, I was fortunate that God led me here and saved me from myself. I will be forever thankful!!!!

I just need to figure out how to repay!!!!


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I don't know you very well, but you are quite an inspiration of strength and commitment to personal recovery.

I wish you all the best and will be praying for G-d protection of you tomorrow.



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Hey Charlotte,
My calendar says that this is YOUR day!!!!! We'll be here cheering for you.

His eyes are going to POP out of his head. LOL!!!!


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MicheleG #2056913 05/13/08 09:38 AM
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I'm cheering for you too!


Me - BS DDay 1 (Multiple affairs while overseas) - Feb 2003 DDay 2 (AdultFriendFinder Profile) - April 2007 Seeing a counselor. I think we have him stumped.
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Thank you Queenie, MicheleG and Dobie!!

I'm not scared!! I'm doing great!!

I'm ready for all the mud he can sling!! I'm bringing my galoshes!!

Here we are:

A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away...

We are going to the Death Star to face the Imperials. Soon the tractor beam will grab the Millenium Falcon and we will be captured. Inside there is the Emperor Palpitine and Mr. Gray, who, for all intents and purposes may as well be Darth Vader and wear the suit since he is destroying his health.

The Jedi Master (my Shiny Attorney) is going to rescue me (Princess Leia) from the evil clutches of the Imperials before they can whip out that droid interrogator on me!! EEK!!

He will effect a successful escape for us and we will blow up the Death Star!!!

(End title and credits)

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