LOL never heard of it before but thanks to google I now know what it's about.

Thanks Charlotte, I'm gonna suggest this be our Friday night movie tonight!

Xenu bless.

pom,

I've heard ants are really good with chocolate.


So, if the mothership comes and takes every alien away, that means only

faithful spouses will be left behind.


Kind of makes for an interesting thought.


If the stats are close to true, that means about only 40% of the married men will be left hanging around.

And 50-60% or so of the women.

I think we would not have to worry so much about the price of gas anymore, since the demand would REALLY DROP.


Only, I think we might find the stats to be a little different, since

people lie.

ESPECIALLY WAYWARDS.

Oh - is THAT ADMISSIBLE IN COURT?

I said it on an anonymous forum.


Hey, who cares? You could very easily take screen shots of the entire threads into court. Disprove her little snippets. Take in the Marriage Builder concepts, and ask what the judge thought about the idea of trying to SAVE marriages - new concept, huh?

Instead of destroying the lives of children?
Instead of tearing lives apart, we look toward forgiving each other, repairing our relationships, and moving on?

You PIG!!!!! How dare you!!!!!!

I think maybe you HAVE been eating those ants!@!


SB

LOL, jayne,

Yes, it is SO funny!!!

Pretty nearly a laugh a minute!!

And Eddie Murphy...oh...LMAO!!!!!

That's a good idea, I need to dig it up and watch it again. I think I let DS and DIL borrow it, time to get it back!!

She is still monitoring your posts?

dang! Do you think she felt guilty reading all these stories trying to figure out which user is you?

Thats like Shock-therapy

No I don't think she felt guilty, knowing her as I do.

I don't think she'd ever guess that I was using a female name.

I don't think I have ever revealed the fact that I work in the Pentagon and have been in the service before.

She certainly could not track my posts either.

I have not utilized a male persona before. She couldn't track me here.

SB

Print out all your posts and ask your lawyer for an opinion. Most likely, if she is able to use anything in court, all you'd need to do is present the whole email in context. If you have all the text, she can't use snippets of it to mislead.

Hey schoolbus check out nztami's thread asap please, you've helped her in the past.

Sorry for the TJ but it's for a similar reason as the title of this thread.

And I don't care if my wife knows I work in the pentagon!

aw darn, I think I missed SB... we just have a small window of opportunity to explain.

*****

I know you won't turn to the Dark Side. Pity her, as engulfed in it as she is.

I am very sorry that the legal system is what it is, and that ppl can make such baseless accusations.

If it makes you feel any better, you should know that my son refused to allow his ex to move their kids 2 states awy; and, when they went to court, the judge awarded him FULL custody.

I know that it happens.

I'm not asking for full custody. I'm asking to be allowed to remain as a part of their lives. My ex says that my access to the kids won't change, but she's asking for sole custody and has moved an hour away. That doesn't sound like it's far, but our agreement was to increase my time with the kids as they got older, not decrease it. Moving away makes that impossible and makes 50/50 impossible.

She wrote me a really long email a few weeks ago which appeared on the surface to be an olive branch but it merely illustrated her sense of entitlement. The email was basically, "if you only behaved like I wanted you to I'd let you see the kids more."

Her lawyers are on a warpath and looking for anything and everything they can use against me, to include MB. They're pushing to get medical records from 10 years ago and 2 years ago. It doesn't make sense for them to go after records from 10 years ago since my incident was reviewed by the AF and it was determined that I was diagnosed incorrectly, diagnosed me with something else, considered the matter resolved, and then let me fly airplanes for 6 years. I flew over 50 combat missions over Iraq and Afghanistan.

They also want to use my hospitalization at Walter Reed against me as well.

We'll see what happens. I would go and not say a single negative thing about my ex if I could and simply ask the court to preserve the relationship between the kids and I. She's the one that has voluntarily moved away, not me.

She claims that she can't afford to live here but won't disclose her finances, has not one but two lawyers, and is making a huge production out of the case by having me deposed for 8 hours. That's 8 hours in fees to 4 lawyers, a record keeper, and the court for the records. I'm getting to where I won't be able to afford my own lawyer any more.

So there is an out of proportion response to me simply asking the court to let me see the kids and preserve my ability to see them.

I hope and pray they side with stability for the kids. They are the center of my life and all I truly care about.

But the court system heavily favors women. It is supposedly more fair in Maryland, so I have my fingers crossed for fairness and pray about this daily.

It's over. At least the "inspection" is done.

It was a weird thing. The kid's attorney came to my house today and observed me with the kids.

The kids were generally good and got tons of energy mid visit. They let it be known that the park was the place to take them to get that energy out.

The woman didn't say much of anything. She didn't take food offered or drinks offered and just told me to act as normal.

Of course, it's never quite that easy.

The kids go through phazes while with me. DD5 simply wanted to play on the computer and the boys wanted to watch TV.

Luckily they did seek to interact with me.

I just wish I could have had more time because the kids put themselves on my lap and seek me out.

The did so while she was here. I showed her some of the silly things I do with DD5 and i chased the kids around the house while carrying one on my back.

Hard to know what king of impression I made. She was here 1 hour and didn't do half of what i expected. I expected she would inspect the fridge and the house in general, but the kids excitedly showed her their rooms and toys.

I hope I made a good impression. I was a bit nervous, but who knows how she perceived me. I tried to talk to her about the kids and their individual personalities.

I get to be interrogated for 4 hours on Tuesday, which won't be all that fun. The BIA will be there (best interest attorney) along with my lawyer and my ex's two lawyers.

I have to go back Thursday for the same.

They are trying to make a big deal out of my hospitalizations in the past for depression, but the AF let me fly airplanes for 6 years after one of them and I work at the Pentagon for the Joint Chiefs right now so I don't really expect their efforts to pass the sniff test.

I'd love to say more, but she's probably reading this looking to get any intel she can to use against me. So, exww, I'm glad to see you have the funds to pay two attorneys and a court recorder to interrogate me for a full day.

I'm sure all the funds being spent could have paid for many months of rent and food here in the area, preventing you from having to move for "financial reasons".

But who knows.

Perhaps everyone is functioning pro-bono and she thinks I'm getting stuck with her bills in the end.

We shall see.

Bump for inputs, if any.

Tomorrow is my big day. I face the firing squad of the Sith Lords who shall attempt to lure me to the Dark Side with their insidious and mean ways. They will attemp to have me show anger, which leads to hate, which leads to the dark path and forever will it dominate my (and the kids) destiny.

I'm going in there fairly confident. I know it will be tough and that I'll be very stressed.

The only thing which could really derail me right now in terms of my composure is an email from my exww.

She's the only one who could and has put conflicting thoughts in my head and who "stirs the pot" when she writes me emails hinting of amicability and even a tiny bit of empathy. Her last one had me stirred up for a few days, questioning everything and got me moody.

Let's hope she stays quiet the today and doesn't attempt to "reach out" (in her mind) which usually only serves to upset me and get my emotions rilied up.

I understand now why people have intermediaries who do plan B and have all contact go through them. It must be an exceptionally good friend to do that.

Anyways, I ask for your prayers for tomorrow. I'm going to need them.

Stay strong! My prayers go with you.

pomdbd3 - So you claim to be all of the above referenced members, eh?

That, at least, is what appears to be the case from your statement, "I keep switching between all these usernames..." and then list them. Using others for your own benefit? "All's fair in love and war?"

I wish you well in the coming "battles," but I'll take a pass on playing your game for now.

I do thank you for your service to the country, but this battlefield requires honesty and standing up for yourself when you are in the "right."

If you notice, I said those were all great handles. But I can see what you mean.

........how does she know im not her XH posting under a alias?

Maybe I'm the real POM?

Thats the thing about anonymous forums with aliases..

P.S. To my XW, i liked the other profile pic on your myspace.

With Love,
Papaof3

ya, okay. whatever.

Are you sure you want to be going around removing all proof of "questionable" posts?

Okay. Unfortunately, noone else will be able to what is being referred to.