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You and MEDC should hook up! From what I've been reading around the site, isn't that YOUR job mlhb??????    not2fun ps....sorry couldn't resist.....ROTFLMAO
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i don't hook ups not2! lol i do courtship, flowers, wine... you know.. "wooooing" hehehe mlhb
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You and MEDC should hook up! I'm not going to touch that one... too easy... LOL THANK YOU GOD! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
My ex has decided NOT to make the divorce difficult like he originally planned.
No word of fighting me on getting all of the profit from the sale of the house and no word on fighting me moving! It will FINALLY be done.
I am very thankful. I'm happy for you MLHB. A small miricle from God for you.
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
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we signed it all today.
it is done. :-)
will be final as soon as the judge signs it, hopefully within 8 weeks or so.
finally, the nightmare chapter closes.
I AM A FREE WOMAN!!!! WOOOO HOOOO!
mlhb
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You and MEDC should hook up! I'm not that kind of a sailor.... LOL Sorry I couldn't resist... I had to .... my head was spinning...
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
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i'm pretty sure he is probably not either..
but i will let him speak for himself! lol
O/T
so amazin, this is your 2nd marriage?
was there infidelity in both?
just curious
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so amazin, this is your 2nd marriage?
was there infidelity in both?
just curious Yes it's my second marriage... although I never really thought about it... yes there was infidelity in my first marriage. She had a boyfriend for a short time. But that was not the only thing to cause the failure of the marriage. The infidelity happened early on... first 18 months... It was her cocain use, suicide attempts and bounced checks that made me RUN from her. She was going down the Sh*tter and I decided she wasn't dragging me and the kids with her.
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
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i do courtship, flowers, wine... you know.. "wooooing" That I understand....now for me right now, since I know too many details on the A and all the "wooing"  that went into it....I'm not really wanting any of that....but someday hopefully I will again....right now, it just would make me ....... you and MEDC kill me though...its a nice breather from everything else we deal with on these boards. oh and congrats on the papers.....now we start the countdown for you..... not2fun
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just is sad to me that a second marriage is not working out either... makes me gun shy to even think about marriage again in the future! i'd not want to go through the ending of another one. i would sometime though, in the future, like to have a happy good marriage. and more children... i hope that will be in my future mlhb
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not2, i wouldn't want to be "wooed" by my ex either.
but than again, i want nothing from my ex so...
yea, medc have fun joking around i imagine.
it is a nice break from all of the serious stuff sometimes.
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MHLB, I am both happy and sad for you regarding the paperwork. I remember when I signed mine that it was a bitter sweet time for me...promises not fulfilled...yet hope for a new and rewarding life lay ahead!
As for the rest of this stuff...you ladies crack me up.
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i felt more bittersweet when we signed the separation papers. it was still pretty fresh then as he had just moved in with ow and had only been moved out about 4 months. this? this was easy and a relief. we have not lived together for 3 years now. i am all about new beginnings now. a whole new life that i will build on my own with my children. and the more successful i become, the more he can realize what was lost. as for him, when i see him, i don't feel like i lost anything. nothing at all. mlhb p.s. thanks! i crack me up too!
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there might be hope for my future yet.. i did have a dream about charlie sheen last night. i love that guy. he's a bad boy, but i like him anyway! zzzzz....  something about spankings and other naughty pleasures.... LOL hey, i signed papers, i can say that now! and he's single too now... i can dream.... mlhb
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Charlie Sheen...now that is aiming LOW. A serial adulterer...prostitute visiting dirt bag.
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He's bragged that he has slept with 5000 women...including multiple orgies.
Aim higher.
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oh shoot, i forgot all about that stuff medc.
darnit, you are right. i was thinking that was rob lowe but no, it was him.
errr...
ok, i need a new hollywood star to invade my dreams.
hmmm..
i also like elliot off of law and order svu. now THAT is a man! oh yea. he wears that gun well. ok, he will be my playmate! LOL
thank you for reminding me about good time charlie.
yucky!
he is cute though.
but yucky.
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well, no dreams last night of hollywood hunks LOL
very busy day ahead the next two days. lots of being on the road.
you want to hear something funny?
me ex is buying the house (well his parents are buying it for him) right next door to ow's exbh' sister! (so, ow's now exh, due to the affair she was having with my h. his sister).
hmmm.... tell me God does not have a sense of humor!
can't wait for their big family bbq's and such! and from what i hear, her exh would still like to kick my exh's butt! ha!
well, i am off to work. did a new workout this morning and it kicked my butt. getting in shape is fun, but sucks too! LOL i wish i was one of those 5% of lucky women who don't have to exercise and can eat whatever they want. i hate those women!
mlhb
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we move in less than a month!
HURRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mlhb
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I'm confused mlhb. I thought you said that you could not move until the kids were out of school? Are you talking about a new home or out of state? Anyways, congrats, you sound happy! All Blessings, Jerry
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jerry, in our agreement i can move anywhere within this county and the next one over. we are moving about 30 minutes away to the next town over. if i want to move further than that, or out of state, or if where i move would impair my exes vistitation (which he takes sporadically) i would have to go to court to get a judge's permission because, due to my ex being a controlling sob, he would never allow us to move further away. yes, i am very happy. A FRESH START IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER mlhb
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