For the record, I NEVER said my husband's shaft was red and scaly. NEVER. A very minor rash, but definately not red and scaly. Not sure where you got that from, but...whatever. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriedgirl:
<strong>For the record, I NEVER said my husband's shaft was red and scaly. NEVER. A very minor rash, but definately not red and scaly. Not sure where you got that from, but...whatever. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I stand corrected and apologize for misquoting you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> You didn't say "scaly".....

" Since my H has been home, we've noticed little red dots on his "member"... at first I noticed them mainly around the bottom and they looked like clogged pores or tiny zits . Now they're more spread out and although they're small, it's hard not to notice them . They're like tiny [b]red dots that resemble razor burn, but on the shaft[/b] . The skin is fLAking a little around some of them......Whatever. I don't think he's such an evil monster that he would put me at risk by sleeping with someone else, get spots all over his [censored] , continue wanting to sleep with me (thereby putting my health/LIFE in danger) and all the while telling me very calmly I have nothing to worry about. ... ......"

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Zuzus_Petals:
<strong>MG and Seven,

Lordy, Lordy...bahahaha!!! I can't help myself, that was funny. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Love you both. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm ashamed to say.....I, too, am laughing! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> But it IS funny when you go back and read the exchange <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Okay....I was suppose to be putting this to rest and returning to the previously scheduled programming....."Masterbation (Masturbation) and The Bible....I should know better". I jez cudn't hep mahsef! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

<small>[ September 07, 2003, 05:00 PM: Message edited by: Seven63 ]</small>

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<small>[ September 07, 2003, 05:00 PM: Message edited by: Seven63 ]</small>

LOL, and what exactly was the purpose of posting all of that again? Yep, that's about right. Little dots that looked like razor burn. Turned out to be a soap rash. It's hard to believe that would gross a woman out who gets a thrill from posting about her wet, gutteral, dirty sex and how she loves her H's d*** slopping around in her pulsing c***. And THAT'S not a little overboard? Give me a break. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Just wanted to add that even my H is disgusted after hearing some of your sexual descriptions seven. And LORD KNOWS he's not a prude! Talk about gutteral, you should've heard the sound that came out of his throat after reading a couple of your posts...and this man is not easily offended, hehe. At least I'm not the only one! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> LOL!!

<small>[ September 07, 2003, 05:07 PM: Message edited by: marriedgirl ]</small>

Lord have mercy....

I had to get up and make popcorn to be able to read this one... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

{{{{{{crunch}}}}}} ((munch)) [[[[[crunch]]]]

Pass the salt please <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

committed

This thread has really gone off on an odd direction, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

Amusing definately, but vaguely disturbing. I have a son that just turned 13, and I have a husband who was told that masturbating was bad, wrong, shameful, a mortal sin. It caused serious problems for him with guilt etc for many many years. It was not until 2 years ago that he admitted that he ever had or does. It took a lot of conversations to get him to see that it is ok and nothing to be ashamed of. Those same things he was taught about masturbation spilled over into his views of sex. So that led to there being some serious issues to work through there as well. It did not help that his church had preached that sex was only for procreation, that ended up having a worse affect on him after i had my tubes tied. If there was no possibility of it creating a baby then it was wrong. We had some difficult times until i was able to get him to open up about it because of all the guilt, he always tried to meet my need for sf, because he knows it is important to me, but it caused a lot of guilt on his part.

I really hope that we are finally getting to a place within our knowledge that children can be raised not to feel that exploring their sexuality alone, in the privacy of their bedroom with their door locked is wrong. Besides the psychological benefits of raising them to be comfortable with their bodies, are also other benefits. Studies have shown that teens who masturbate are less likely to end up with an std, are less likely to have to deal with an unwanted pregnancy, or to give into the peer pressure to have sex before they are ready. They are more self confident. BUT ONLY if they have not been taught that it is wrong, and a sin.

It all boils down to being a personal preference. Even children/teens have a right to privacy when it comes to this topic. You don't have to encourage them to do it, and you sure as heck should not discourage them from doing it. Just tell them it is ok if they do and ok if they don't, it is their choice and that it is not something they have to tell anyone about. No one has the right to judge them other than God and God does not have a preference either as long as it does not go against any of his teachings, such as porn usage, or after marrying and it leading to denying the spouse of your body.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriedgirl:
<strong>LOL, and what exactly was the purpose of posting all of that again? Yep, that's about right. Little dots that looked like razor burn. Turned out to be a soap rash. It's hard to believe that would gross a woman out who gets a thrill from posting about her wet, gutteral, dirty sex and how she loves her H's d*** slopping around in her pulsing c***. And THAT'S not a little overboard? Give me a break. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You search and post MY posts (which you seem to be obsessed with)and upon finding one of YOUR quotes is "going overboard"?!?!? Are you schizo or just that ......... well?!?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

<small>[ September 07, 2003, 08:12 PM: Message edited by: Seven63 ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriedgirl:
<strong>Just wanted to add that even my H is disgusted after hearing some of your sexual descriptions seven. And LORD KNOWS he's not a prude! Talk about gutteral, you should've heard the sound that came out of his throat after reading a couple of your posts...and this man is not easily offended, hehe. At least I'm not the only one! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> LOL!!</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You SURE he isn't one of those sex starved horny men who's thoughts you SEEM to so intuned to? hhhmmmmmm???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> And if you let your husband read ALL of the things you say about HIM, I'm sure the sounds coming out of his mouth would be much worse then THAT! ha ha <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

MBFW.....AMEN!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

You know, if this were happening in real life I would either be standing at a distance trying not to get hurt (flying glass bottles, the odd high heel misplaced my way, etc) or standing at a safe distance with ILMF sharing some popcorn.

Don't make me take out the bell to end this! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

MG, if you are worried about what you look like when you masturbate, I think you're kind of missing the point... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Seven,
I was referring to your explicit sex talk as going overboard. And hon, I don't need to search very hard to find your obscene sex posts. They're pretty much everywhere. Have a blessed night, just spare us from the gory details in the morning <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

DevotedHusb-
BTW, your masturbation slang gave H and I a good laugh. Those were hilarious! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ September 07, 2003, 09:49 PM: Message edited by: marriedgirl ]</small>

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