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I just took one big step in the direction of healing myself.

I am putting my YS on a plane on July 9th until August 19th to spend it with my SIL who was up for graduation. He'll have his cousins and little cousins to play with, plus private time.

This is so hard for me, but it's good for him and then I will have time to myself to work on me and just heal me.

WONDERFUL!!!


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See I listen and move forward.

Sometimes slowly


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I recently discovered SALSA..hardly NO CALORIES...0 FAT...

YUMMMM....

Let's think of some more YUMMY yet HEALTHY STUFF that you can eat alot of...

I LOVE WATERMELON, too...all kinds of FRUIT...



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I love watermelon, fruit.

I love pretzels. smile

I love hummus

Salsa... I can do

I love eggs, goat cheese, salads.

What I really need is to get off of the sugar....

Probably white flour as well.


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There's lots of 100 Calorie Snacks and NO SUGAR CANNED FRUIT..but you have to be able to do PORTION CONTROL..I have to have my sweets..but I don't use SUGAR...I'm addicted to the BLUE STUFF...


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what the heck is the blue stuff


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Equal...that's what Cher calls it in the commercial.. grin


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You crack me up.

I do the yellow stuff


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There's BLUE people and then there's YELLOW people.. cool


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LOL - oh yes there and then there are coke and pepsi people.

Thank goodness we all go to the bathroom the same way... crazy


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Thank goodness we all go to the bathroom the same way...

We do?!?!? grin grin


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LOL - one of my better insights, wouldn't you say


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Thank goodness we all go to the bathroom the same way...

That's what y'all think...

You never know... wink


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There are 100 Calorie Granola Bars that will satisfy your "sweet tooth" (grandmother saying)..I love the Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip..BUT..you have to eat just ONE..at a time...AFTER YOUR WALK..K?

My PERSONAL TRAINER taught me to keep a FOOD JOURNAL. She was a fanatic about that. I HATED doing it but it helped keep me on track. She also taught me that as long as I keep up my workout out routing that if I watched what I ate during the week then I could eat what I wanted on the WEEKEND. It's about REWARDING and not DEPRIVING yourself...


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My current favorite snacks are strawberries and sugar snap peas.

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Hey, good news!!

My boss approved my leave for my doctor appts. (I miss the rolly eyes emoticon!)

He approved my week off in August!!!! grin

He hasn't approved the 2 days 2 weeks from now. (what's with that?)

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My current favorite snacks are strawberries and sugar snap peas.

I hope not TOGETHER!! grin

I love brocoli with the BUTTER SPRAY!! I probably could eat a whole package that you STEAM in the MICROWAVE and it's cooked!!


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Quote:I love brocoli with the BUTTER SPRAY!!

Brocoli is my favourite vegetalbe. That sounds really good, I wish we had something like it here.
boohoo:(


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Help,

WH has emailed me in two places to get items or something from me.

My lawyer sent me an email saying WH called asking about the taxes again. I have told WH, his friend, lawyer that I gave him until March 28th to get his W2 to me. He never got them to me.

So I went and filed an extension with my accountant for just me. Now it's become of the utmost importance and I am supposed to get them done asap.

I will not break Plan B for him, but not sure how to handle this.



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I think it would be appropriate to tell your attorney to tell his attorney to tell him that he missed the deadline and he needs to do his taxes - unless he wants you to file a joint return and you keep the refund. cool

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