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You deserve the best caring and love that is out there. If he can't give you anything that will be for YOU, go with someone else and let someone else who truly cares about you.
Don't settle for half measures when there is so much more. Hi Q Thank you so much for the hug - i really needed it. I am thinking the same, i don't want further disappointment - i know i am going to need all the support i can get. Right now, it's not even sinking in. It just seems like a never ending nightmare
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And take care of yourself - please! Tabby - thank you for your advice, i am trying to think of myself. I am just very scared
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Now, more than ever before, you've got to focus on taking care of yourself. I agree with the others. COMPLETE SILENCE in response to his request. He wishes you more HARM than any GOOD at this point.
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No access. Warn the nurses/doctors that he might try to show up and to turn him away for you. He's already told you not to expect him to SUPPORT YOU. Not to COUNT ON HIM.
Can he be any more clear that he should NOT be there? Kayla u r right, he just wants to feel good about himself - that is all it is about. I won't be contacting him
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I won't be contacting him WONDERFUL!!
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Now, more than ever before, you've got to focus on taking care of yourself. I agree with the others. COMPLETE SILENCE in response to his request. He wishes you more HARM than any GOOD at this point.
((((BROWN)))) Mimi Thank you for the hug. You have been right from day one. I am getting to see his true colours. I am scared of doing this alone but i do know that i need to. He isn't the man i thought he was.
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I am getting to see his true colours.
He isn't the man i thought he was. Brown, For your sake, I hope this is true and that you will consider a real Dr. Harley style Plan B so you can either recover your M or move on with your dignity in tact. Good luck on your tests! Sorry that you are suffering.
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Hi Only
Thank you for the wishes.
He rang today saying that he didn't handle things well. I think he will still want to turn up at the scan next week despite me saying no, but will have to wait n see. After the test i am going to write a letter n go to Plan B.
The divorce papers have arrived again n he is still unsure as to what to do with them.
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Will you be receiving the results of the test at the scan next week?
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I think so - in any case I am seeing the consultant the following day
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Just sending love and prayers....
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Just sending love and prayers.... Thank you Q. I really need them. I am actually quite scared and i feel very lonely at the moment. I do wish WH could be my H again and support him like he always did. But the reality is that he isn't there and i don't even know whether the nice side of him was just a facade. He just hasn't got a clue
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Brown,
Just checking in to see if you received the results of your tests or is it occurring this week?
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I'm right here with U checking up on what's happening. How are you?
Barbara
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
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Thank you for your concern. I have been relatively quiet as been feeling very stressed about this. I had the test today, they wouldn't say anything - have to wait for my appt with the consultant tomorrow.
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Had a very hard day with work and feeling quite anxious about the results. I just want to know one way or the other but yet scared to know.
Thank you all for ur prayers and good wihes
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Did your WH show up for the test?
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Yes he did, but he was late and the test was over (I went in early)
He was ok, just asked me how i was - spoke a little n he left.
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Hey brown,
just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you, and praying for a good result.
Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday 
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Hey brown,
just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you, and praying for a good result. Thanks - it means a lot to me- I get them in an hour's time.
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