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I deserve all of the abuse you guys are giving me.
A physical fight is something I can deal with, have spent years learning how to do that. So a reason I can be bold and cold, I know how to deal with it.
Man enough to tell my wife? I am working on that now. Because the thought of losing my daughter scares me more then you know. Yes I was more then willing to risk here during the affair, for all of the known reasons.
The guilt has been there for a long time, your all right I just need to man up and tell her. Here's my take after watching with fascination for 2 days now..... I think you are not telling your wife because you are waiting. Waiting to see if OP works things out with her H, waiting to see if OP H will not divorce her or not, waiting to see if she can "see the light" and come running back to you. YOu are not leaving you wife because of your daughter. Do not lie to yourself about that. In fact it is a piss-poor excuse to use your child in that way. You are scared to be alone.... You are scared that your daughter will never look at you the same again..... You are scared that you will never be happy again..... You are scared of what your wife will do WHEN she finds out (and she will....)....will she divorce you, will she extract revenge, will she tell everyone and their brother, will she take your sorry butt to the cleaners, will she tell all of your future endevours, will she tell your daughter....... And the reason you come here is to find out IF MAYBE there is hope for your marriage. Can you love her again?? Can she meet YOUR EN'S??? BUT your were sorely mistaken when got here to find out that SHE will be devastated and you were not going to get the "Free Pass" you were hoping for... YOu were mistaken when you thought by coming here there would not be any repricutions for YOUR actions...... I wish you luck.....cuz you are going to need it....you've taken some good steps yesterday. Hopefully you will step up to the plate and finish what you have started.....and TELL YOUR WIFE. Mine hem-hawed around for a month about whether or not to tell me the truth. Guess what happened??? I caught them..... Did he tell me truth after that?? Nope....just particals Are we recovering?? trying to, but he made it much much harder... Oh and the COW??? She told her H ONLY because she knew I was on a mission to tell him. She beat me to it by less than a day. That put a whole different light on her when he found out what I was doing....... So, you are only making things worse and by coming forward with her, YOU will gain a little respect...... not2fun
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Why was I censored?
The word I used is harmless by itself, and anyone who's familiar with the act associated with the word can probably handle it.
I know rules are rules, I'm just curious. You were edited for a TOS (terms of service) violation Krazy. Specifically: 2. You will not post in a way that is
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c. hateful.
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d. threatening language toward anyone. -emphasis added You agreed to follow those rules when you signed up. Editing is at the discretion of the moderators. Thank you for your cooperation.
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So, what you're saying is that my post was educational... I missed the WORD that was edited, dangit, but Krazy, you are too funny. makes you wanna know the word doesn't it???.... 
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I would tell you but I would be in violation of:
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I agree, N2F. Def. calls attention to it MORE.... and makes me want to know it more...
Its kinda like the ol' DON'T PUSH THAT BIG RED BUTTON!
A radio station by us has a "dirty joke of the day"-- they say the question on air (its not dirty at all), and you have to call in to get the punchline.
I wish that I could "call in" to Krazy right now to get the "word" punchline...
haha...
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I agree, N2F. Def. calls attention to it MORE.... and makes me want to know it more...
Its kinda like the ol' DON'T PUSH THAT BIG RED BUTTON!
A radio station by us has a "dirty joke of the day"-- they say the question on air (its not dirty at all), and you have to call in to get the punchline.
I wish that I could "call in" to Krazy right now to get the "word" punchline...
haha...
E. Dang...me too..... 
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You'll just have to fill in the blank yourselves.
"To get me to not tell his BW about his A, OM was willing to let me _________, but my orientation would not allow it."
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rhymes w/?
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I’ve been fascinated by this post for 2 days now. I’m not sure if this guy is real or not, but either way he sure knows how to push the buttons of all the BS’s on here.
The reason I’m posting though is to jump on the Krazy71 bandwagon. There’s no one else here who can express things quite like Krazy. I’m going to step out on a limb and suggest that he could make a lot of money by starting a business to exact creative revenge on WS’s. I would certainly pay up and I’m sure there are many others who would do the same. He could take some of his anger and turn it on for HUGE profits. Just think about it. I'd love to, but those pesky things called laws keep getting in the way... It reminds of that comedy called "Dirty Work".  I was thinking more along the lines of "Dirty Jobs" Soprano's style. Imagine the humor as Mike Rowe extracts revenge on WS's and OP's as the witty quips come from his mouth. Of course, this would have to be on HBO, where it could be very graphic, LOL
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Of course, this would have to be on HBO, Less severe TOS.
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I'd prefer it be on a episode of Dexter myself
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Of course, this would have to be on HBO, Less severe TOS. I don't have anyone or any specific punishment in mind. I have some general ideas, but don't dwell on them much because they are not really fruitful to think about.
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I like Marshmellow's "rhymes with" request, haha.
Pretty soon we are going to be doing charades with the smiley faces...
How many syllables, Krazy??
I know what the word "means", I just don't know what word it was!
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I'd prefer it be on a episode of Dexter myself Oh, the spatter!
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I agree, N2F. Def. calls attention to it MORE.... and makes me want to know it more...
Its kinda like the ol' DON'T PUSH THAT BIG RED BUTTON!
A radio station by us has a "dirty joke of the day"-- they say the question on air (its not dirty at all), and you have to call in to get the punchline.
I wish that I could "call in" to Krazy right now to get the "word" punchline...
haha...
E. The word he used was referring to the little sack of herbs and spice that has a string attached to it... you use it by putting it in hot water and letting it steep (sp) to make a certain drink.
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Hmm... I'm still not there yet. Maybe I don't know this word. Is it two words? I don't know why I have so much fascination with this... its like figuring out a (dirty) puzzle! Well, either that or it is a slow day at work and I'm just bored... haha... E.
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I didn't think it was nearly as crass as his comment to alonewithouther's thread. It was equally amusing though. You do have a way with words Krazy!
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I like Marshmellow's "rhymes with" request, haha.
Pretty soon we are going to be doing charades with the smiley faces...
How many syllables, Krazy??
I know what the word "means", I just don't know what word it was!
E. I don't want to get banned...if you don't know what the word is, you probably have the definition wrong, too. I'll be happy to send an email to anyone needing this valuable information.
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