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Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff introvert #2093051 07/17/08 11:59 AM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550 E eeyoree Member
eeyoree Member E Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550	I GOT YOU!!! Thanks intro. Now I know what he said...

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff eeyoree #2093063 07/17/08 12:06 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499 N not2fun Member
not2fun Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499	Originally Posted by eeyoree I GOT YOU!!! Thanks intro. Now I know what he said... Well heck, I'm still lost....it must be the blonde in me... Or maybe going through this has not made me a "street smart" or nieve (sp) as I thought... not2fun

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff Krazy71 #2093078 07/17/08 12:11 PM
Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,862 M Marshmallow Member
Marshmallow Member M Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,862	Originally Posted by Krazy71 Originally Posted by Marshmallow rhymes w/? Free flag Nope. Still don't have it. But, you guys live in a different language world than we do. All words seem to originate from one main word. LOL Lemme ask one more question. Does it mean to sodomize?

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff Marshmallow #2093079 07/17/08 12:12 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,871 S silentlucidity Member
silentlucidity Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,871	Would anyone like a cup of TEA. Get it NOW? Thanks for helping me out there, Krazy. and eeeewwwwwwwwwww. Me-BS-38 Married 1997; son, 8yo Divorced April 2009

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff Marshmallow #2093084 07/17/08 12:14 PM
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ComingAbout Member C Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 739	Originally Posted by Marshmallow Originally Posted by Krazy71 Originally Posted by Marshmallow rhymes w/? Free flag Lemme ask one more question. Does it mean to sodomize? NO.... Is it lemon or milk with Earl Gray?

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff ComingAbout #2093087 07/17/08 12:16 PM
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Marshmallow Member M Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,862	OK. Got it. Thanks. LOL

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff Marshmallow #2093089 07/17/08 12:16 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,965 C chrisner Member
chrisner Member C Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,965	You can almost feel the TOS reaching it's ultimate yield strength. Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain�t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff chrisner #2093092 07/17/08 12:18 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,871 S silentlucidity Member
silentlucidity Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,871	We're giving her all we got Cap'n!!! Me-BS-38 Married 1997; son, 8yo Divorced April 2009

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff silentlucidity #2093095 07/17/08 12:20 PM
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Marshmallow Member M Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,862	LOL

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff Marshmallow #2093137 07/17/08 12:56 PM
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eeyoree Member E Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550	I'm sitting at my desk giggling while I read this... My boss is looking at me funny-- I am supposed to be working on something for a conference we are going to next week. Its not anything funny... I don't think I can tell her about this one... E.

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff not2fun #2093179 07/17/08 01:54 PM
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introvert Member I Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,288	Originally Posted by not2fun Originally Posted by eeyoree I GOT YOU!!! Thanks intro. Now I know what he said... Well heck, I'm still lost....it must be the blonde in me... Or maybe going through this has not made me a "street smart" or nieve (sp) as I thought... not2fun The word he used was referring to the little sack of herbs and spice that has a string attached to it... you use it by putting it in hot water and letting it steep (sp) to make a certain drink. Think about what it is that I am describing in the above description. Then take that word, and google it...but, tread lighty (just a warning...as I don't want you to slap me through my computer). "Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth" Henry David Thoreau

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff eeyoree #2093180 07/17/08 01:55 PM
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not2fun Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499	free flag??? Tea bags?? Rhymes with?? nope didn't help me at all..... oh well....I think its my funky mood today... not2fun

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff not2fun #2093182 07/17/08 01:56 PM
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eeyoree Member E Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550	Originally Posted by not2fun free flag??? Tea bags?? Rhymes with?? nope didn't help me at all..... oh well....I think its my funky mood today... not2fun Um, you said EXACTLY what krazy said in your post N2F. Look closely... Specifically, at the SECOND LINE. Google it (take off the "s" and make it a "verb"-- add "ing") but have a barf bag ready. E. Last edited by eeyoree; 07/17/08 01:57 PM.

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff not2fun #2093185 07/17/08 01:59 PM
Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,423 W wildhorses74 Member
wildhorses74 Member W Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,423	OKAY!!! I FINALLY got it. I have never heard that before. Ummmm......yuck. Why would he let you do that and why was that supposed to be a plus for you? Ew.

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff introvert #2093187 07/17/08 02:02 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499 N not2fun Member
not2fun Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499	Originally Posted by introvert Originally Posted by not2fun Originally Posted by eeyoree I GOT YOU!!! Thanks intro. Now I know what he said... Well heck, I'm still lost....it must be the blonde in me... Or maybe going through this has not made me a "street smart" or nieve (sp) as I thought... not2fun The word he used was referring to the little sack of herbs and spice that has a string attached to it... you use it by putting it in hot water and letting it steep (sp) to make a certain drink. Think about what it is that I am describing in the above description. Then take that word, and google it...but, tread lighty (just a warning...as I don't want you to slap me through my computer). Intro, Let me tell ya a little bit about me... At 16 my parents threw me a surprise party....I walked in in the middle of the DECORATING for it, cake out and all, I didn't notice just wanted to go out with my friend...little did I know that I would walk into my party later that night. When I was getting married, we went to my aunt's house to see my cousin (who was a minor league BB player and hadn't seen in awhile). I walked in everyone yelled "surprise", I laughed said "I didn't know this was a surprise party for Brian. But sorry I'm not him..." and went and sat on the couch. It took me ANOTHER 2 minutes to realize that my soon to be MIL was there with all of her family......it was a surprise bridal shower for me..... When I was going to turn 30 I told everyone "NO PARTIES". Had my 2 BF PROMISE to tell me if something was in the works because I would not show up. What happened?? YEP you guessed it. My WS and mom threw me a party and I walked into my OWN house not knowing..... Sometimes I can be REALLY REALLY dense......sometimes I find it hard to believe that WS hadn't been going on longer that it did before I got my first inkling and Dday..... not2fun

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff wildhorses74 #2093192 07/17/08 02:06 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550 E eeyoree Member
eeyoree Member E Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550	Originally Posted by wildhorses74 OKAY!!! I FINALLY got it. I have never heard that before. Ummmm......yuck. Why would he let you do that and why was that supposed to be a plus for you? Ew. I don't think it was supposed to be a plus for Krazy, just a statement of what the POSOM was willing to let Krazy do rather than having his wife find out. He was desperate for Krazy not to tell his wife about his A-- enough so to sit down with a cup of tea with Krazy, so to speak Shows you how bad he didn't want his wife to find out, eh? E.

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff wildhorses74 #2093196 07/17/08 02:10 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499 N not2fun Member
not2fun Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499	Originally Posted by wildhorses74 OKAY!!! I FINALLY got it. I have never heard that before. Ummmm......yuck. Why would he let you do that and why was that supposed to be a plus for you? Ew. yeah, I got it too. had to Google it. and Wildhorses, I'm with you....I am not sure where the torture in that would be, unless I have not been "educated" properly.... hmmmm.....maybe being "clueless" has its advantages.... not2fun ps....I am 34 and have NEVER heard of this.....education you say????

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff eeyoree #2093202 07/17/08 02:12 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499 N not2fun Member
not2fun Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499	Originally Posted by eeyoree Originally Posted by wildhorses74 OKAY!!! I FINALLY got it. I have never heard that before. Ummmm......yuck. Why would he let you do that and why was that supposed to be a plus for you? Ew. I don't think it was supposed to be a plus for Krazy, just a statement of what the POSOM was willing to let Krazy do rather than having his wife find out. He was desperate for Krazy not to tell his wife about his A-- enough so to sit down with a cup of tea with Krazy, so to speak Shows you how bad he didn't want his wife to find out, eh? E. now that makes sense.....kind of.... not2fun

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff not2fun #2093206 07/17/08 02:14 PM
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Marshmallow Member M Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,862	Had to check google too.

Re: hu7668, have you told your wife about your aff Marshmallow #2093221 07/17/08 02:28 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 596 U Unfettered Member
Unfettered Member U Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 596	This thread completely delivers in all aspects. ex-WW had 2 PAs in first 2 years. Buh-bye. Divorce finalized: 1/28/09 Now just living and loving again.

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