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As I said in my earlier post I was here 2001 to 2002 I believe. I went through a horrible cheating situation. He ping ponged between and the OW for a year until I finally made him choose. He did choose her. They are married now and he has, in expected form, cheated on her. I am in a different state now with someone I knew from 1991. My daughter is now 12 and doing great.
I had contact with the OW while it was happening, I have done all the wrong things and tried to do all the right things.
I have seen miracles here on this site...and when things don't go as we wish I have seen incredible healing. I am here, ask talk whatever. Look up my old posts here in General Questions II I think there are some in recovery and in divorce too. If you read my story maybe it will help...I will try to make some sense of it and maybe link it all on to one sheet. I was Faith-n-Hope
God bless all of you, my prayers are with you.
Last edited by MuffinCups; 07/19/08 12:20 AM.
DDay 2001, separated 2002, divorced Feb 2003, OW/WH married 2004 I believe, He cheated on her 2006 I believe. A vicious circle. I am with someone now who I lived with in 1993...funny how things work. I learned alot.
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No questions yet, I just wanted to say welcome back, muffin cup. Glad you are returning from a place of healing and willing to share your wisdom.
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Hi Muffin,
Would love to read your story.
Will try to find it, but please link it if you can.
Thanks!!
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Welcome back Faith-n-Hope/MuffinCups! Thanks for returning to help those still struggling. 
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[color:#009900]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=recent_user_posts;u=00015681;filter=topics Here is the addy for ALL my posts(the link thing confused my tired mind)...I was lurking here long before I had the guts to actually post. AND BOY DID I POST AND POST AND POST...  I am going to be writing my full story from where I left off right up to today...just be a little patient.
Last edited by MuffinCups; 07/20/08 10:40 PM.
DDay 2001, separated 2002, divorced Feb 2003, OW/WH married 2004 I believe, He cheated on her 2006 I believe. A vicious circle. I am with someone now who I lived with in 1993...funny how things work. I learned alot.
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Thank you Exodus1414....I will read your posts. It is nice to be back although bittersweet I must say.
DDay 2001, separated 2002, divorced Feb 2003, OW/WH married 2004 I believe, He cheated on her 2006 I believe. A vicious circle. I am with someone now who I lived with in 1993...funny how things work. I learned alot.
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I think I faintly remember you Nerlycrzy...I will brush up thank you for the welcome back. I feel like I just walked into my version of Cheers and I am Norm...HAHAHA...where is my stool...
DDay 2001, separated 2002, divorced Feb 2003, OW/WH married 2004 I believe, He cheated on her 2006 I believe. A vicious circle. I am with someone now who I lived with in 1993...funny how things work. I learned alot.
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