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Bwaahaaahaaahaa! That was!
BS 33 EXWW 35 DS 5
OM1 9/06 - 03/07
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I try. 
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Nice one, SL,,,, very nice!
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"You Can't Fix Stupid" - My Mom
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THA-ANKS!!
Well, folks, I set up an appointment for Monday the 28th to discuss filing for divorce with my lawyer. I'll take money from retirement if I must. I'm ready. The towel hath been thrown.
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I imagine you'll 'feel' better at least a little bit, getting each little step out of the way.
It's the uncertainty of everything that's been driving me crazy.. we don't even have a date for mediation much less the D.. and it's been almost a year.
Me - 32
DS - 5
DD - 13
DSD - 9
D final 12-8-08
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Ugh....I am so glad to be on THIS side of D now. I don't envy what you are heading for.
But it DOES get better. This is a mountain that has to be climbed to see the lush valley below.
Breathe, SL (and Jamesus)
You WILL get through it and the relief is immense.
When you only have to answer to you and make decisions for you and DS based on what YOU think is best, it is a relief.
There is loss, there will still be some grieving, but you'll see the light of a new life at the end.
Hang in there, Wonder Woman. Rest assured, the Amigos are holding the net beneath you.
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What a long road you have had to travel.
The false recoveries and PWC's battle of the bottle.
As Fox said, the valley awaits below. Many turns in the road and switchbacks, but this LIFE will get better because of this decision.
Its never a good thing to put the nail in the coffin of a marriage. But PWC put the lid on, and tapped all the nails into place. His OWN issues would probably NEVER allow him to actually drive te nails home.
He even makes you do that.
((S/L))
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He even makes you do that. This comes as no surprise to me anymore. I know there will be some more 'mourning' and I know what it is in regards to. The loss of family. The family I wanted so badly. I never really had that family, though. From the moment that I became pregnant, something clicked inside him.
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Hang in there, Wonder Woman. Rest assured, the Amigos are holding the net beneath you. ……and then there are times when being a visual thinker is a good thing. Hopefully James won’t come around and ruin it like the last few.
Last edited by chrisner; 07/22/08 02:54 PM. Reason: I mean, come on. Impaled by a guided frozen turkey missile. Even by the standards of the quasi-immortal creatures of the night, that ain't something you gonna see twice.
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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……and then there are times when being a visual thinker is a good thing. Hopefully James won’t come around and ruin it like the last few. yes, yes, but he will ruin it, just give him time to catch up. I give him points for GROSSNESS. There's always one... ...wait, there's two. Where's BC?
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Dippin' his vienna sausage in the bayou, probably.
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Don't mess with the people holdin' your net, SL.  Fox :eek:
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Don't mess with the people holdin' your net, SL. Looks like it's gonna be a hard fall, of this holds true, 'cause I don't plan on stoppin'.
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Hey woman,
I'm thinking about cha.....
{{{{{{{{{{{SL}}}}}}}}}}}}
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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Sorry, I got distracted with that job thing I wasn't playing with my vienna sausage, I promise besides, If you saw the Bayou outside my office you wouldn't even consider dipping anything in it. 
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BS 33 EXWW 35 DS 5
OM1 9/06 - 03/07
OM2 04/07 - present
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SL
My WH filed for D recently. So we may be walking this part of the journey together for a little while...
You and DS will be fine--guaranteed.
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I wasn't playing with my vienna sausage, I promise MY BRAIN!!! MY BRAIN!!! OUCH!!!
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Looks like it's gonna be a hard fall, of this holds true, 'cause I don't plan on stoppin'. ***pfffft**** 
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Well, folks, I set up an appointment for Monday the 28th to discuss filing for divorce with my lawyer. I'll take money from retirement if I must. I'm ready. The towel hath been thrown It takes courage to do that for many. I know it will for me.....so, I'm proud of you. I know my WH is like yours in the sense that I will be the one having to hammer in the nails on the coffin too. ((((SL)))))
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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