I'm new to the website. My H works a lot of hours at his full-time job then comes home for about 20 minutes and leaves for part-time job on some of the days. When he is home, he is very tired that he starts to fall asleep when TV is on. When not working he is with his dad or brother. Mostly riding street/dirt bike. I don't get much time to be with him when he is awake or with his family. When it comes to my family it seems that he really doesn't want anything to do with them. I messed up his one weekend that he would do things that he wanted to do,(and it wouldn't have included me at all) but I gave him 2 options to choose. I'm to be enjoying myself when we are with his family, but it seems that I don't at times.

How do I communicate with my H about this issue/problem? I understand that he needs to work a lot, but I think we should spend more time with each other. Basically, he does what he wants to do. I would like some impute about this problem. By the way, when trying to talk with him he says "he doesn't want to fit". I don't think that we're fitting when just doing some talking about issues that we have.