cardsonly -

When did you meet OM#2 - before or after your divorce?

Also you justify the divorce by saying your BH was diagnosed as severely mentally ill, but you also said that he wasn't diagnosed as such until after the divorce, and you said that your BH is theone who divorced you? What was your BH's grounds for divorce? Did he find the messages from OM#1 that you were holding on to? Or did he finally crack because you wouldn't stop trying to tell him more about the OM and affair than HE needed/wanted to know? Or was it because of OM#2?