committedandlovi

Um. Yes. And I have done it with a few women for them. I tell them from the getgo I dont know if I want to settle down or if I will ever get married again. I am a very honest guy. One I knew she was getting attached and when she started bugging me for sex I told her it's not a good idea because I dont know what I want and it's only been 1 or 2 dates.
Well she put guilt on me, said she was crying cause I wouldnt do it to people. And even had a tantrum. OK. I wasnt really turned on. She was good looking but reminded me of my aunt so I didnt like her that way. So yes in this case two and cause the other drove far. I did it for them. Then got stalkers.

Now there have been a few I have been interested in but after I got to know them decided not to so I get marked as a user. I had a girl tell me I was a booty call. Say what you want but I never lie for sex I just be myself aand they want to. And few it was me who initiated. I was married 16 years and didnt cheat though before her dated like crazy when I was a teeneger. If I find the right one I'll stay with her but until then it's not my fault if women think they can change my mind by sleeping with me. If asked a question I always answer honestly and like my cards on the table. More people should be like me. I have many female friends now that are friends. And many women that leave the dating sites cause of creeps give me their email or phone number first and tell me I'm the only normal one.

So the LESSON here is not to label because how I say it went down it went down. NO lies. And yes sex should be with a special person and there is nothing in the world like having sex when in love but I am single now and an adult so if knock someone for casual sex knock the woman. At least men are expected to do it.

I thnk part of the answer involves the relationships men and women have with members of the same gender. Women tend to have more female friends, better family ties and thus better support. Men tend to not have as many friends and often break with the family. Thus, they are often hungrier for a relationship than the woman is. Obviously, this is a huge generalization and not true in all cases.

This is true. I though have many female friends. Some from highschool, we work out or go drink or email depending on the friend. I like to have friends that are woman. That is my secret beyond my thought I have good quality frieds men and woman who give good advice. The females give me insight into my situations from a female perspective. I know nobody on here would of though I have female friends. One is a counselor (not mine) knew her over 20 years. Almost dated her then. She gives me many insights and sometimes I'm baffled because it way off what I was thinking