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You may have read my posts from before....I recently found out I was pregnant, he thinks that I dont really want the baby, im not eatin properly...its not the best time for a baby but God knows best. Now I have to be even stronger after my H affair. Any advice? I'm still going through all the hurt.
Me: 35 WH:52 Found out: May 08 A: march-April 08
God is my Refuge and Strength, a very present help in times of trouble....
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I have some.... TELL your OB staff about H's affair and your current level of stress and distress. It's important that they know where you are emotionally. Pep
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Focus on the baby for now, to give it some positive emotional nourishment. Try to start talking about the baby and what it means, if he's ready. Involve your family. People usually want to help each other, if they're given the chance.
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He has no right telling what you want or don't want,honey. YOU did not cheat. Tell him you're not eating properly because of the A. It has nothing to do with the baby. It's primarily what HE did. I agree with Pepperband....Tell your OB/GYN about the affair. I'm sure they know how to deal with it.
He has no right making you feel bad about yourself at a time when you need him the most. :RollieEyes:
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