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Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie #2125710 09/11/08 02:59 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344 D Dealan-de Member
Dealan-de Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344	Quote it is your stand that it's pathetic to mourn the death of a friendship and the loss of someone you care about? It's pathetic to mourn something that you never had to begin with. You go a year without contact, THEN you find out she's LIVING HER LIFE, then you decide to mourn? Life lesson for ya: Real friends don't let the grass grow upon the path to their friend's door. It actually sounds like YOU'RE the one with the misplaced feelings, and you've picked on Krazy because he's one of the most blatent and vocal people we have here. But his blatentness doesn't make his reasoning less sound - usually, that is (usually, Krazy...USUALLY...can't have you getting a big cabaza). I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution? O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie princessmeggy #2125712 09/11/08 02:59 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,880 K Krazy71 Member
Krazy71 Member K Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,880	Originally Posted by princessmeggy Originally Posted by HeavensDoor Krazy71, so, it is your stand that it's pathetic to mourn the death of a friendship and the loss of someone you care about? I'm not Krazy (just crazy) but what's "pathetic" is BA coming here time and time again under one guise or another just to stir up controversy. :RollieEyes: I don't know who BA is, but if this is him/her, they really suck at debating. Divorced

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie Dealan-de #2125714 09/11/08 03:00 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344 D Dealan-de Member
Dealan-de Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344	Quote You are putting outfits on the corpse and pretending it's alive ala "Weekend At Bernie's". OH DEAR GOSH!!!!!!!!!! Who needs a neti-pot. I just spewed Diet Pepsi outta my schnoz. I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution? O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie Dealan-de #2125717 09/11/08 03:01 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,880 K Krazy71 Member
Krazy71 Member K Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,880	Originally Posted by Dealan-de Quote it is your stand that it's pathetic to mourn the death of a friendship and the loss of someone you care about? It's pathetic to mourn something that you never had to begin with. You go a year without contact, THEN you find out she's LIVING HER LIFE, then you decide to mourn? Life lesson for ya: Real friends don't let the grass grow upon the path to their friend's door. It actually sounds like YOU'RE the one with the misplaced feelings, and you've picked on Krazy because he's one of the most blatent and vocal people we have here. But his blatentness doesn't make his reasoning less sound - usually, that is (usually, Krazy...USUALLY...can't have you getting a big cabaza). No problem. Divorced

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie Krazy71 #2125721 09/11/08 03:18 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 3,278 D Dancing_Machine Member
Dancing_Machine Member D Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 3,278	Originally Posted by Krazy71 Originally Posted by HeavensDoor Krazy71, so, it is your stand that it's pathetic to mourn the death of a friendship and the loss of someone you care about? You're not "mourning a death". You are putting outfits on the corpse and pretending it's alive ala "Weekend At Bernie's". Why pick an infidelity site to post on?

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie Dancing_Machine #2125738 09/11/08 03:46 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 514 T TryingToLetItGo Member
TryingToLetItGo Member T Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 514	Krazy, BA is a poster that comes on here under a new screen name everytime. The posts BA starts are not real they are made up just to start problems. People have had to change their email addresses because BA got a hold of them and wouldn't stop harassing them. I am not saying this is BA, but maybe you shouldn't waste your time debating with HeavensDoor, all they seem to want to do is disagree and whine. BW 38 (me) FWH 42 Married 7 years DD 6 SD 15 11-2006 H said he wanted a divorce and walked out 3-2007 I told H I wanted him back 3-2007 to 4-2007 D-day's 4-2007 H moved back in for good Today-In recovery, but a long way to recovered

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie TryingToLetItGo #2125852 09/11/08 07:49 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344 D Dealan-de Member
Dealan-de Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344	Quote People have had to change their email addresses because BA got a hold of them and wouldn't stop harassing them. What a fartknocker. I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution? O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!

Re: Venting Etiquette - Help a Newbie Dealan-de #2125876 09/11/08 09:23 PM
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eeyoree Member E Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 550	Quote What a fartknocker. E.

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