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Hi folks,

Just found out my FWW's OM has just filed for bankruptcy and his business is down and under. This is where my w was office manager and where their A started.

As luck would have it, this POS OM was also busted with over a pound of pot by local police. This is his third drug offence, so it more than very likely he is also facing serious jail time as well.

Since he is a drug addict, his rehab in jail should be a living nightmare.

So now he faces jail, and his business is gone.

Anyone want to celebrate with me. grin

All Blessings,
Jerry

hurray rotflmao hurray

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I love happy endings.


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That sounds like the Karma bus tank!

hurray


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Thought about emailing him with a short note of sympathy:

"So sorry you actually have to experience real life trauma, but as you have stated in the past, you'll get over it!"

Signed,
One who has.

What do you think?

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You're bigger than that, Jerry.

But I'm glad you feel a sense of vindication.

Looks like he got what he deserves.

Good news, brother!


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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rotflmao

dance2 hurray

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AAAAWWWWWWWW,

laugh

Maybe the kharma cement truck will dump its load after impact.

JL

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Since he is a drug addict, his rehab in jail should be a living nightmare.

So now he faces jail, and his business is gone.

Sounds like he is going to have the opportunity for a lot of "new sexual experiences"


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I also thought about : "Give my regards to BUBBA!"

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a pound of pot and a third offense can get you life in prison in some states.

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I was hoping you would reply MEDC, thanks.

I'm going to sleep very well tonight.

Jerry

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Shine,

Great to hear! The karma bus ran over the OM in our situation too. He lost his everything in his life and ended up homeless. I know it's little consolation, but take a modicum of satisfaction knowing that the OM at least got part of what he deserved with a whole lot more to come from his new cell mate "bubba." Couldn't happen to a nicer POSOM, eh?

rotflmao hurray rotflmao

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DS-7 & DS-3
PA - 7/06-8/06
EA - 6/06-1/07
D-Day: wife confessed 2-17-07, suspected 8-02-06
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

Send him a soap on a rope.

Send her a card that simply says "how's it goin?"


The only thing I have to look foreward to is OM has a bad ticker to give out and I don't know just how long that will take.



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I'm not saying someone shouldn't be happy about someone receiving bad karma when they have wronged that person, but I once read that those who celebrate someone else's bad karma get it back on them.

Just a word of caution to those who truly believe in Karma.

LC





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Just a word of caution to those who truly believe in Karma.

If I believed in Karma I wouldn't joke about it. I don't. So I do. grin



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I don't believe in karma either, but I do believe that people make their own beds.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Just desserts....

He got his just desserts.

The principle of 'logical consequences for our choices' comes into play again. If you play with fire,........

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Originally Posted by lifeschoice
I'm not saying someone shouldn't be happy about someone receiving bad karma when they have wronged that person, but I once read that those who celebrate someone else's bad karma get it back on them.

Ahhh, but it feels so good, doesn't it? Love these stories!!!! Can't wait for the karma bus to hit WstbxH and his OW. (I know, shame on me but it's the truth)

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When justice is done, it brings joy to the righteous but terror to evildoers.
Proverbs 21:15


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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