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Originally Posted by hurtmomof2
. Do you think she's for real?

me ~~> skeptical

this:

"That she decided that she didn’t want anything to do with him because I was pregnant."

then this:


"Aug 3rd 08 my sister had a beautiful wedding. I even got along with the OW. After the wedding a lot of us went to the bars."

does not pass the whiff test

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Yeah, I kinda wondered what she'd be doing drinking at a bar at 8 or so months pregnant.

I haven't been here long enough to know certain things. Why would someone make up such an elaborate story and post it on here? What would be the motive?


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The OW web site was down for a few days - we had visitors from another planet rotflmao

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
The OW web site was down for a few days - we had visitors from another planet rotflmao
LOL, that explains the outrageous stories! faint


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I still don't get it. Why make up a story? What could they posssibly want from us?


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Originally Posted by hurtmomof2
I still don't get it. Why make up a story? What could they posssibly want from us?
Sweetie, the BW who stays with her H even AFTER the OW purposely (again NOT YOU Mary) to trap the MM is the OW's biggest nightmare.


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Originally Posted by hurtmomof2
I still don't get it. Why make up a story? What could they posssibly want from us?

E V E R Y T H I N G we have that they lack

respect
honor
marriage
integrity
acceptance

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I get it now thanks!


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Originally Posted by hurtmomof2
Marysway, what is kwim? PM me if you need to.

I don't think you can PM on this site. But KWim means Know what I mean. :-)

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Hi! I think you can write a private message. I click on your name, and there was a choice to click on send private message.

I'm going to try and send you one, let me know if you get it.


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Never mind, it didn't work. It said my capacitiy for sending messages was full. It's gotta be some kind of glich, since I've never send anyone a message.


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PM's are disabled on MB because private messaging between opposite sexes (and especially those going through the trauma of affairs) is a no no.


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