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Me and my wife have been together for five year on Oct 17. The best day of my life. We have been married for 3 years. Now she want a divorce but i want to save he marriage because i feel in my heart there is something still there. I pray every night that it could go back like when me and here were married. I just have to sign the divorce paper but i feel it could still be save. I said i do and i ment that. For better or worst. I'm still here and will never give up hope. I ask god to forgive my sins if i did anything wrong. I love her and i need her back into my life. I have two step kids that i love so much as well. We have a good friendship. please pray to save my marriage i really need.
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Prayer is good, but you need to be proactive as well. Have you two gotten any kind of counseling?
Sooly
"Stop yappin and make it happen."
"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."
Me 47
DH 46
Together for 28 years.
Married 21 years.
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I was told by my decon that it takes two to make a marriage work and you can try everything but if the other side is not willing to try it will not work. All you can do is work on yourself and PRAY, PRAY, PRAY.
It is hard for me to say because I am struggeling also but I know deep down that I need to take care of me first (any my son)and he needs to work on him.
Hang in there!!!
Last edited by rockets; 09/26/08 11:21 AM.
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no we haven't hade any counseling at all. I think it would be a good idea to do that. I have the papers for the divorce but i don't won't to sign. Everything is going so fast. the last month has been had for me. I know and believe there is something there and i hope and pray that we can get threw this. I'm going to ask for counseling before i sign because i know she will she that we belong together.
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i will try to hang in there. My heart tells me too. Even her son want me not to give up. I promised i will not give up. I pray everyday and it hurt not being with the one i love. this is the first time were apart and i'm thinking she rushing it so fast. I said i do and for better or worst and i mean everything that i said. pray for me.
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