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Wow. As you all know, my ex and I are divorced and he wants to get back to me. But I'm done with him.
The fly in the ointment has been that the OW is still my neighbor - the affair ended after almost 3 and a half years and she moved back in with her ex-husband. So I have to see her everyday driving by.
So anyway, her ex drove by tonight and stopped to talk to me. He has just come back from Dubai and was glad to see me. He met lots of women there - the youngest 21. He is 42. And right now, he has a visitor from Australia who is 30. Seems lots of women there were interested in him (he's a cutie).
So, right before he came home, he told the OW that she needed to move out, he is done with her. And she moved out yesterday.
I know I shouldn't gloat. But the woman had it made. She didn't have to work and her husband had 3 jobs so she could stay home.
Then he was fighting in Iraq and she cheated.
Gloating feels so good.
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Darn....some people have all the luck  I wish my OW would get what's coming to her. I'd be one happy camper 
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(Confirmed by polygraph that it had not gone PA)
Dday1 4/13/08
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Jojo - This stuff takes way more time than we would like. I really thought that this day would never come.
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No. It's the Harley. Girls always go for bikers.
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So, right before he came home, he told the OW that she needed to move out, he is done with her. And she moved out yesterday Good, serves her right
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me - 47  H - 39  married 2001 DS 8a  DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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Hope the door hit her HARD on the [censored] on the way out.
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A youtube video of him tossing her would just make this thread!
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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Recently saw a glimpse of my own karma bus regarding OM a short time ago.
Kind of restores your faith that there is justice for those willing to be patient.
All Blessings,
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I feel so happy for HIM! He came back from Iraq to no wife, no job, and he was really down. I always told him he would do just fine - he has lots of good qualities. So anyway, he has his self-confidence back. I get to meet the Australian chick today.
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B, What have you done for yourself today?????......  Sending lots of warm, fuzzy thoughts your way today....Something tells me that you are going to LOVE the new woman.....  not2fun
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Wow. As you all know, my ex and I are divorced and he wants to get back to me. But I'm done with him. "done" is putting it mildly  The fly in the ointment has been that the OW is still my neighbor - the affair ended after almost 3 and a half years and she moved back in with her ex-husband. So I have to see her everyday driving by. I had forgotten they were X spouses. Do you think he allowed his X to move back in (in part) to make life easier and less complicated for their teenage daughter? Maybe he had a timetable in mind? Something akin to : "I'll just have to put up with XW until I can be home more and DD is 16 years old with a drivers license." ? ... ? I'm just speculating .... So anyway, her ex drove by tonight and stopped to talk to me. He has just come back from Dubai and was glad to see me. He met lots of women there - the youngest 21. He is 42. And right now, he has a visitor from Australia who is 30. Seems lots of women there were interested in him (he's a cutie).
So, right before he came home, he told the OW that she needed to move out, he is done with her. And she moved out yesterday. Where is their DD? Do you know? Maybe OW is calling and chatting up your XH again !!!!!!!! :RollieEyes: (prolly not .... he's broke, right?) I know I shouldn't gloat. But the woman had it made. She didn't have to work and her husband had 3 jobs so she could stay home.
Then he was fighting in Iraq and she cheated.
Gloating feels so good.
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Oh, the daughter is 17 now and still with dad. She will graduate early - this spring and is going to college. Dad struggled, but did a good job.
OW may be living with my ex - I don't know, or care. It just all turned out so well. Both of the adulterers are miserable.
The OW's ex has the home, the Harley, his daughter and his confidence back. I have my home and my gentleman caller. What a happy day!
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Here's wishing for you the best that life has to offer.... YOU DESERVE IT!!!!
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B I told Aussie you had a nice man in your life now and he told me to tell you ........ About bloody time ......... :RollieEyes: 
Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.
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Oh, AW, I'm so glad he is okay! Still praying for him and your family still in harm's way.
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Thank you B that means so much to us. He is doing well and is very up beat. We worry about our son though. Liz's husband will be home Monday. God has been good to us.
many hugs
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Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.
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Oh, thank God! I have been very worried about Liz and her hubby. I was afraid he would have to stay.
Your daughter is so sweet - kept us up to date through this scary stuff. And in great detail.
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I bet she went running back to your Ex. Sounds like they make a good pair 
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12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
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Thank God for the Karma bus so happy for you. Really don't care to know what the Karma bus has done to OM in my sitch, just happy to know Wife chose me and he can rot in Hell.
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